I received a beautiful long email from a man in his 20’s who is struggling to accept his inclination towards a female led relationship. These are My advices for him and other men like him. Watch the video for free on YouTube
Everything else is not connected with Me in any way.
Anybody can create a profile on dating websites or social media. Even when I report the profiles there will be other created soon. Be responsible and do not send money to random email addresses. All My email addresses are connected to a personal website domain name. @MistressEzada.com or @dominare.ro or @houseofsinn.net. Everything else is fake!
I wrote blog posts about this issue in past, I publish regularly tweets regarding this problem. My hope that you will use a little google search before falling for a con-man who pretends he is Me.
I finished the rant. Now get closer and worship Me!
This is a list with websites and email addresses I have been told the scammers are using:
“Hello Goddess Ezada, i discovered BDSM when i start looking at your videos, you are a sublime dominatrix, i love to be dominated since i’m 18 years old, in face of you i think i will bow to you and lick your feet i would love to be fucked so hard by you Mistress, my girlfriend is Romanian just like you she is pretty dominant girl, i told her that i would love to lick her feet and kissing them, she will fuck me with strapon soon, what can i do to be more submissive?”
I am pleased to hear that My clips inspired you. However, I noticed how focused you are on your own fantasies. you mention how much you want to be pegged and to worship feet. I respect your fantasies but if you want to be “more submissive” you must start listening more to your girfriend fantasies and try to be less focused on yours. Discuss with Her about what you like, ask Her about how She likes to explore Her sexuality. I found that a good way to try and explore is to watch porn together. Show Her clips that you like and ask Her to share clips that She likes. Negotiate, be open and see where you two can meet in your fantasies.
For some months I am exchanging emails with Miss M., a lovely lifestyle Domina. She runs an interesting blog, BDSM-couple.com, where She shares Her kinky experiences as Owner of Her husband, slave p.
She shares lots of My preferences (long term chastity, oral servitude, regular corporal punishments, daily tasks etc) and I can’t tell you how much pleases Me to see that more and more FLR couples decide to share their lifestyle on the Internet. Female Led Relationships are the best between married couples. The male is truly controlled and useful when he lives very close to his Owner and loves his Owner.
I find their blog as an inspiration for those curious about Female Led lifestyle . Anyone can live a fulfilling Female Led Relationship. All you need is a bit of confidence, a lot of negotiation and a desire to explore. A Female Led Relationship will not happen over night. It takes time and effort but believe Me, it is very fulfilling! As Miss M. told Me, lost of males are looking for a Lady who already discovered the benefits of Female Led Relationships to take control over them (and that’s ok) but take in consideration that for every Dominant Lady out there are hundreds of males willing to submit. Maybe is better to be inspired by other lifestyle couples and try to talk with your partner. She/he may be interested to experience BDSM and, why not, a FLR, in time.
you already know how much I love orgasm control and over the years I tried countless models of chastity devices. From the widely popular CB6000 to expensive custom made models. After all these years I have concluded: if you are serious about chastity and orgasm control you MUST invest in a custom made chastity device. The problem is most custom made models comes with a big price tag (sit’s chastity device costed a little over 3 000 usd) and not many can or want to invest this amount in a chastity device. But I found out not all custom made chastity devices are so expensive. One can get now a custom chastity device for a fraction of the price he would have paid for all the cheap, not comfortable, sometimes unusable Prêt-à-porter chastity cages. I probably paid thousands on all the chastity devices I bought for hubby over the years and with the exception of BON4 and Birdlock most models I tried were useless for long term chastity.
Several months ago I discovered on Twitter Red Chily Chastity. I was very intrigued by their “Hannibal” model and I ordered one to fit hubby. Soon after I received the package and I was impressed by the craftsmanship. I loved it. I make hubby wear it for punishment, several hours at a time. Of course, he is intensely teased while he must wear it. The dicklet is bent to the back, so imagine the fun…My fun, not his. hehe.
Soon after I put My hands on the Hannibal I decided to order another one, more suitable for long term chastity. I instructed My pink poodle to order the “sissy cage“. Several weeks later I met pink poodle and I had the pleasure to inspect My property locked in this new metal custom made chastity. I am very, very pleased with the way it looks. Much more discreet under the clothes than a regular chastity device, easy to clean, therefore it can be worn for long stretches of time without the need to remove it, very smooth, no sharp edges and of course, very secure as it is custom made. his dick is not big anyway but in this cage it really looks tiny, which is great as I like to emasculate him as much as possible.
I personally find the locking system very ingenious and the key super pretty, shaped as a heart. It can easily be worn as a jewelry. I have’t made a research to see if the locking system can be unlocked with a special Allen Key but I believe it can’t as the key has a very special pattern.
If you do not own a chastity device and you think of buying one make yourself a favor and buy a Red Chily Chastity device.
During the whole month of October all males must remain locked in chastity. I am celebrating Locktober every year and all My chattels, devotees and fans are instructed to join.
My devotees receive tease and denial tasks for Locktober on My fan page, OnlyEzada.com. Every second day or so I publish an exclusive clip on My OnlyFans page. This is a random one filmed the other day. The surprise prize was a pair of My worn panties and an exclusive clip with his name mentioned.
“I was curious to ask you what the benefits of long term chastity is for us males. And how long it usually takes to feel/see the effects?”
Personally I don’t advocate “long term chastity”, but “orgasm control”. The difference between the two being that regular tease and denial sessions and occasional releases are the key to keeping the sexual interest up, therefore the sexual frustration and desire. Long term chastity with no tease and denial and with absolutely no release will lower the sexual desire and in time can cause temporary impotence. These effects may happen as soon as a couple of weeks, but this depends very much of the individual (his libido, his age, his sexual and non-sexual habits etc). One will start having less and less erections and overall a diminished desire for sex. But of course, this happens with or without a chastity device, as long as the sexuality is not stimulated at all.
But the whole idea behind Femdom orgasm control is for the Woman to take control over the sexuality of Her partner, to use his sexual desire to make him more obedient. The true benefits of orgasm control is when a partner that you are sexually attracted to will keep the key from your chastity and will decide for you how long you will stay locked, when you should be teased, when you are allowed to cum and how. Of course, one can wear a chastity, but the whole idea is to give that control to someone else.
“Dear Goddess Ezada, I’m curious and I mean this respectfully, why dominate when there can be equality? Doesn’t it get boring without a strong man like myself telling you “no”, once in a while?”
Since I started to date, in My teenage years, I have had relationships with different types of people. I have enough experience to know the dynamic that works best for Me and fulfills My desires. I only like partners who are very obedient and are happy to give Me total control over their lives, not only sexually, but especially in the everyday life. I have zero interest in a relationship based on equality or brats who are trying to make Me play by their rules.
But My desire to be in total control over My partner doesn’t mean I do not care, love and respect him. Only people with great qualities and integrity can become a part of My harem. And those who are worthy of being Mine are happy to offer Me total control over them. It is a mutually beneficial relationship.
Do you remember the clip I published some time ago “Getting pregnant FemDom style“? I am happy to announce, My friends, slaves, devotees and fans, that My wishes became true and now I am expecting twins. I don’t know yet if I will have My little Ezada, as I wish, or hubby will loose his balls for giving Me boys. But I should find out in the next couple of weeks.
Giving life is magical and, as a Female supremacist, I experience an immense joy to be able to feel in this very special way why Women are real Goddesses. And even though My body goes through lots of changes nowadays, I will continue to use My collared slaves as before, on and off camera.
Lately, I’ve been thinking that I would really love to have a little Ezada in My life, to pass on My female heritage and principles to My own little girl. Having already checked out hubby’s genes, quite some years ago, it’s now time to use him in a totally new way – as a father for My . I fully understand how badly he’d love to impregnate Me, yet I would never allow him, or any male for that matter, to feel the pleasure of ejaculating inside My Sanctum. In turn, I’ll obtain his sperm by milking him into a glass for use immediately following, while he will be locked back in chastity. Of course, I will allow hubby to sexually Worship Me, his Wife and Goddess, in order for him to become aroused enough to give Me his cum. I might even lead him on with the false hope of penetrative sex, only to hasten the extraction process. In My life I always get what I want, and in the way I want it. Ultimately, hubby will spill his seed for Me and it had better turn out to be a girl, otherwise I will make him pay for the rest of his life.
I opened My Twitter account @Mistress_Ezada in 2013 at the recommendation of Clips4Sale, in order to be able to promote the updates on My C4S store. Soon after I discovered that most of My lady friends are very active on Twitter and I can keep in touch with them easier. Also, it was a convenient way to find out about new Femdom events and I became good friends with several other Dominas after following them on Twitter and admiring their domination style. Yes, I do like Twitter.
Over time I started to follow people from the vanilla world (friends and people I find interesting). But lately I realized something important: I must open another, a more personal account. My fans find My Tweets about science and art boring and in the same time My vanilla friends are swamped with kinky pictures, extreme BDSM activities and clips promotion. I lost followers, I got muted and even blocked by some (not friends but people I wanted to follow). And, most important, I always had to be very careful not to open Twitter in public. Therefore, from now on I will use @Mistress_Ezada as My professional account (the kinky one) and @EzadaSinn as the personal one, non adult. you can follow Me on the one you are more interested in or both. But be aware, no adult comments will be allowed on My personal account.
@Mistress_Ezada: where I stay in contact with My lady friends, slaves, devotees and fans, I share realtime pictures with Me using My slaves, fetish selfies, My travels, the Femdom events I am attending, previews from My clips and House of Sinn clips, etc.
@EzadaSinn: where I will share links with things I find interesting, like Tweets and links about science, physics, biology, philosophy, art etc. This is not a sexy account by all means but if you are curious to see other interests that I have besides Femdom – feel free to follow. Although it is not necessary.
I just came back from My vacation in USA – more about this in a future blog. This is Me, taking a selfie while visiting the Death Valley.
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