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24 11 2018

My recommendation for a custom made chastity device: Red Chily Chastity

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you already know how much I love orgasm control and over the years I tried countless models of chastity devices. From the widely popular CB6000 to expensive custom made models. After all these years I have concluded: if you are serious about chastity and orgasm control you MUST invest in a custom made chastity device. The problem is most custom made models comes with a big price tag (sit’s chastity device costed a little over 3 000 usd) and not many can or want to invest this amount in a chastity device. But I found out not all custom made chastity devices are so expensive. One can get now a custom chastity device for a fraction of the price he would have paid for all the cheap, not comfortable, sometimes unusable Prêt-à-porter chastity cages. I probably paid thousands on all the chastity devices I bought for hubby over the years and with the exception of BON4 and Birdlock most models I tried were useless for long term chastity.

Several months ago I discovered on Twitter Red Chily Chastity. I was very intrigued by their “Hannibal” model and I ordered one to fit hubby. Soon after I received the package and I was impressed by the craftsmanship. I loved it. I make hubby wear it for punishment, several hours at a time. Of course, he is intensely teased while he must wear it. The dicklet is bent to the back, so imagine the fun…My fun, not his. hehe.

Soon after I put My hands on the Hannibal I decided to order another one, more suitable for long term chastity. I instructed My pink poodle to order the “sissy cage“. Several weeks later I met pink poodle and I had the pleasure to inspect My property locked in this new metal custom made chastity. I am very, very pleased with the way it looks. Much more discreet under the clothes than a regular chastity device, easy to clean, therefore it can be worn for long stretches of time without the need to remove it, very smooth, no sharp edges and of course, very secure as it is custom made. his dick is not big anyway but in this cage it really looks tiny, which is great as I like to emasculate him as much as possible.

I personally find the locking system very ingenious and the key super pretty, shaped as a heart. It can easily be worn as a jewelry. I have’t made a research to see if the locking system can be unlocked with a special Allen Key but I believe it can’t as the key has a very special pattern.

If you do not own a chastity device and you think of buying one make yourself a favor and buy a Red Chily Chastity device.

02 09 2018

Q&A: benefits of long term chastity

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“I was curious to ask you what the benefits of long term chastity is for us males. And how long it usually takes to feel/see the effects?”

Personally I don’t advocate “long term chastity”, but “orgasm control”. The difference between the two being that regular tease and denial sessions and occasional releases are the key to keeping the sexual interest up, therefore the sexual frustration and desire. Long term chastity with no tease and denial and with absolutely no release will lower the sexual desire and in time can cause temporary impotence. These effects may happen as soon as a couple of weeks, but this depends very much of the individual (his libido, his age, his sexual and non-sexual habits etc). One will start having less and less erections and overall a diminished desire for sex. But of course, this happens with or without a chastity device, as long as the sexuality is not stimulated at all.

But the whole idea behind Femdom orgasm control is for the Woman to take control over the sexuality of Her partner, to use his sexual desire to make him more obedient. The true benefits of orgasm control is when a partner that you are sexually attracted to will keep the key from your chastity and will decide for you how long you will stay locked, when you should be teased, when you are allowed to cum and how. Of course, one can wear a chastity, but the whole idea is to give that control to someone else.