By now, pet collars have become a common accessories for men and women. Nothing scandalous about them – a fashion statement more than anything else. But in the context of a female led relationship they are of much greater significance. To a dominat Woman, the collar of Her chattel is a symbol of submission and yet another assertion of Her power over him. To the submissive, the collar is a constant reminder of being in training or of being owned, a wedding ring of sorts.
But not all collars are created equal.
Training collars Usually bought at the local pet shop. Could be plain and simple, could feature some gems and/or studs for the more feminine submissives, or a tag with the dominant female’s name on. Just in case that silly human pet gets lost!
“Owned” collars These collars remind the chattel that he is owned. Those could range from custom made titanium ones (like hubby’s), a discreet necklace (that could also be locked), a bracelet even.
Permanent collars Though amazing in theory, in practice these would be dangerous in case they need to be removed fast. I would not personally choose them although I can relate to the fantasy behind them.
A leash and a collar Adding a leash to the collar instantly transforms the submissive male to a human pet. He is thus relegated to an inferior position and not equal to his Owner in any way.
Remember – when a collar has a ring on it, it means submission. Removing the ring transforms it into an accessories, a fashion statement.
Leather of metal? Leather collars look cool but in time they get worn out. Large leather collars with spikes on could also be dangerous during play and because of that should be used only for the look of them, not during play.
I consider metal collars the best when it comes to both play and everyday use.
Watch the video below to learn more about collars in female led relationships and gaze upon My magnificent collection!
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I consider power exchange relationships natural and I don’t think it is important to find reasons WHY a male would choose to submit to a Dominant Woman other than the desire to please Her out of adoration and love. However, some of My boys needed to explain their desire to be submissive. What do you think?
1 – Humiliation
You like to be embarrassed or even degraded, treated as an object, as less than what you are, by a more powerful partner.
Examples: your partner pulls you with a leash in the street, gives you a slap or a spanking in a public place … Feelings of admiration, adoration, reverence, devotion, idolatry, for the beloved woman, that you compare easily to a “goddess” : as you love Her. it’s so natural to put Her “on a pedestal” !
2 – Service
You love to meet the needs of others as a good servant should do.
Examples: light a cigarette, bring a drink, wash the dishes, do the housework, offer gifts to your owner
3 – Masochism
You like feeling pain in an erotic and sexual context. Could be because some pains, mild or strong, excite you sexually (endorphin), or because you enjoy the psychological turmoil of having to suffer for the other.
Examples: being whipped, having your nipples torture
4 – Loss of control
You like to be out of your own control, you like having to obey the will of another, you like to have no choice.
Examples: bondage, pet play
5 – Emotional Security
You like to feel confident and in intimacy, not to have to make decisions, to be appreciated and cherished, the fact that it’s your partner – not you – who is responsible, to have the impression you have arrived to destination.
Examples : to feel ourselves protected; not to worry about spending and payments; to appreciate that your partner wants to keep you under control and to knoweverything about yourself and your life.
6 – Being defeated
You like fighting an attractive person who is stronger than you, physically, emotionally or mentally, and then, having lost that fight, having to pay the price or suffer the consequences.
Examples: fantasy of being hunted, chased for a long time, and forced; or a firm discussion with your partner until she forces you to shut up in one way or another.
7 – Being raped
You like the sensation of an extreme rape game and all that it implies: surprise, pain, fear, inability to flee.
Examples : scenarios of kidnapping and rape, sodomy
8 – Self-destruction
It is a mostly unconscious motivation, but it should be included here because a small but significant number of subjects are submissive for that reason. They feel despicable and abominable, so it would be justice if someone rejected them, hurt them or even killed them.
Example: permanent imprisonment fantasy
9 – Sexual Intensity
You like to flirt with danger, experience very intense emotions, feel so incredibly alive, be pushed to extreme limits of your ability to endure pain in all lucidity… You like it because it is taboo, vicious and perverse.
Examples: a simple curiosity (what can I tolerate or endure?), extreme S & M scenes, like scat play, very strong electric torture, branding with a knife or hot iron
10 – Fetish
You are attracted by certain objects, up to adoration of these objects.
Examples: latex, women’s underwear, dirty panties, smell and feel of leather.
11 – Narcissism
You want to be the center of attention. Each of your fears and wishes are listened to carefully by your partner, if not met. During sexual activity, you are often shown to other slaves and Mistresses, by a prestigious Dominatrix. She publishes “your” clips, your writing. In reality you are treated with care like a precious treasure !
12 – Spirituality
Some people consider pain and SM as a spiritual exercise, a way to grow spiritually
Example : stoicism, flagellants in the Middle Ages
13 – Intimacy and Love
This goes much further than the “emotional security” mentioned above. Many people yearn intimacy but not particularly security. Intimacy is sharing ideas and experiences, giving to a woman (someone) a substantial place in his head, confide her all your thoughts and innermost desires, good or bad.
Example : in the course of permanent SM relationship, special but very deep intimacy develops gradually. You love your partner, and you love the love your partner
might feel gradually for you.
Please, give your personal feeling about each possible motivation:
0=not at all, 1=very little, 2=a little, 3=actually, 4=a lot, 5=extremely
Several months ago I received an email from Geri. he told Me he feels inspired by Me and asked permission to use Me in one of his books. After reading the first parts of the book I told him I would be happy to be part of the story. Recently I received the finished book: Heirloom V – 50 Years in Bondage to My Family by Geri Wilde. I read it almost at once during a long flight, feeling Myself very aroused by his ability to capture the essence of My dominance, My preferences and My female supremacy philosophy. I never met Geri in person but he managed to present ME in his 5th part of the book in a brilliant way.
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