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A little experiment on male sexuality

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I have been very horny lately. Probably because I spent more time watching Femdom clips, playing with hubby, or just because of the submission that My properties, slaves in training and devotees show Me every day. And when I am horny I have even more wicked ideas.

Five days ago I published a hot tease and denial clip on My C4S store. Most of My boys received orders to buy the clip and follow the instructions. Several others received different tease and denial or painful tasks. So yesterday they all were very aroused, frustrated and with blue balls. Just how I like to keep them most of the time.

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And then one of My American boys reminded Me of the long time he is in orgasm denial. And then the inevitable happened. I was in the mood to play a little with their minds. Some mind fuck for My sexually frustrated subbies. I knew this would be great fun, but the results exceeded My expectations.

Yesterday evening I wrote this simple line to several boys I have in training:

“Would you like a release?”

And then the fun begun – for Me at least. Most were puzzled knowing Me already very well. I never ask them such a thing. It is Me who always decides when and how they are allowed to have a release.

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I was in My bed, with My laptop, smiling while reading their replies:

“Maybe….” “I don’t know” “Yes! … No no! …yes” etc

I insisted on a concrete answer and inevitably they said “Yes”.

Many were, as very often men are, driven by their immediate desires, thinking with their silly dicks. We all know, this is NEVER a wise thing to do.

“Yessss”, “Da Stapana”, “Yes, of course, yes!!!!”

They probably thought it’s their lucky day.

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My pantyhose bitch very wisely asked for My permission to remain chaste – smarter than expected from a novice I have in training for only several months. “I’m a little bit scared about the consequences if I’ll say yes. Please leave me locked in chastity, Stapana.” A pleasant surprise. I like him even more now.

My pink poodle said he would rather like to edge some more for Me – a very wise choice but somehow expected since he is in My training for over one year now and I have a very strong, special connection with him. The longer the training, the better My slave behaves.

A few boys were not online so no replies from them at all.

I tried to include one of My Twitter followers that is not in My service, but, due to mental chastity, he was not able to take part in the game this time.

My wonderful slave sit was not included – he is in long term chastity, he knows a release is not allowed unless it’s by my hand.

I ignored poodle and the pantyhose bitch for now. They will receive special, very pleasant tasks the following day, as a reward for learning to postpone their pleasure. Good things happen to those who have patience.

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All the horny boys received this task:

“Start the timer on your phone. Wank for Me. Cum. The number of the minutes that it took you to cum, multiplied by 3, is the number of belt lashes you will apply on your bottom AFTER the release. Pain after an orgasm – yes, it will not be sexy for you. Back in chastity after.”

I changed a little the task for those who can’t afford to bear marks on their bottoms.

I started to touch Myself, getting more and more aroused with every red bottom picture I received. Small number of lashes: 6, 9, 15 – the proofs of their sexual arousal.

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The experiment was finished, but not My playful mood. I requested a couple of My boys to perform more tasks for Me, according to the direction of their training: nipple torture, ass stretching, cock and balls slapping, etc. Taking pain or a dildo right after an orgasm is not the most pleasant experience for a slave, but the fact they are obeying My orders during the refractory period is the proof of their submission.

Feeling in control over their sexuality, body, mind, and seeing how much they are trying to satisfy Me made Me cum intensely with hubby licking My ass and the Doxy wand on My Sanctum.

I sent the question to 13 boys in total. 10 took part. 2 decided to postpone the release, the rest of 8 asked permission for a release. The vast majority of men were happy to cum NOW without thinking there might be a catch at the end. Expected somehow, isn’t it?

Of course, this can’t be considered a real scientific experiment, but the most important thing was the amusement I had doing it and, possibly, the lesson My slaves may have learned from it. I have been well entertained by My boys.

Follow Me on Twitter or join My advanced online training program and maybe in the future you will amuse Me too.

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sit meets his Goddess – Chapter 6: An expected turn in the road

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The longer a slave actually serves the Goddess Ezada Sinn, the firmer you realize this journey is no longer any flight of fantasy, it is concrete reality.  Her imposing dominant power sits weighted on your shoulders, back and the chest like a heavy snow bound winter coat.  The gold key displayed around Her sun tanned neck, perched just above Her perfect breasts, is the only means of escape from the weighty steel chastity cage hanging between your legs.

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You the slave have …
    No key to hold.
    No power to wield.
    No chance to lead the way.

Deference to Her will is no longer play; it is who you have become 24 hours a day.  The only choice you make is one to obey without question, without hesitation, without doubt, or delay.  There is but one bearing you respect in order to remain a slave by Goddess Ezada Sinn’s side.  Learn to embrace your inferiority under Her superiority.  In private or in public, when spoken with directly by Her voice or a simple gesture of Her hand, a slave of Hers does not waver and waffle, you instantaneously do as you are told.

i have studied the ten submissive male positions repeatedly.  i’ve read and reread so many of Her writings and posts.  Honestly i felt that i was making positive steps forward.  Suddenly, an unexpected turn in the road appeared.

It transpired by the pool one early afternoon.  Goddess issued a simple two word command, “Follow Me.”  She walked around to find a secluded patch of grass hidden from view of anyone else nearby.  “slave sit down on your ass, legs out in front.”  Silently Her hand under my chin spoke, “Look up at Me.”

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Goddess straddled my legs with Her smooth, muscular, and shapely lower limbs.  She inched slowly into my elevated chin and bald head.  She serenely lifted the short hem of Her red latex minidress.

“Open your mouth.  Drink my nectar slave, I have to pee.”

So it came to light.  Goddess was carefully gentle first with Her stream, then applied more force as She desired.  Here, i am in some suspended state of animation as i swallow as quickly as possible.  Her warm champagne splattering on my lips, some precious drops running down my chin onto the front of my shirt.  Her holy sanctum just inches before my face.  Is this moment for real or just a dream?

Her hand tenderly shakes Her sacred flesh, and Goddess takes one scant step backing away.  She reaches down to pull my stainless steel collar upwards so my eyes meet Hers.  They are swollen, ablaze with fire.  She speaks softly but in a very direct and purposeful tone.  “What was that slave?”  i tremble in repose, “A gift dear Goddess, a sacred gift.”

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A warm smile broadens across Her lips.  “sit, I have decided to train you to become my toilet slave.  It will take time for you to learn to wantonly consume every bit of my champagne without spilling a drop.”  my furrowed eyes trace down and inspect the dribbles down my shirt, then look back upwards silently to the Woman who owns me body, mind and soul.”

“Good boy, you understand, now heel.”  Immediately, i assume the position as Goddess leads U/us back to the pool.  She finds an open cabana and lies down to bask in the sun.  Her hand taps the open space besides Her and inaudibly commands “wait position.”  Her slave gingerly crawls up and complies.

With my head buried down on the white sheets underneath U/us, Goddess leans over and whispers wetly into my ear.  “Before I am done sit, I will also inculcate in you a scorching yearning to eat my caviar.  Don’t worry how, I have my ways.”  She exhales into my eardrum, and my body fidgets and shakes.

The unexpected turn in the road has been taken.  There is no turning back now.
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How to Choose the Right Chastity Device

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If you know anything at all about Me and My Femdom beliefs, then you should be keenly aware of My penchant for implementing serious male chastity training with My trainees and slaves.  I have three fundamentals that a male must abide by if he wishes to be even be considered as a possible candidate for collaring.  The second of My triad is that stark realization that My slave will be permanently locked in chastity under My absolute control, so that all his sexual impulses are reprogrammed to serve Me instead of his own self-gratification.

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While a chastity device prevents masturbation and ejaculation, to Me that is of secondary concern. My prime motivation is the singular consequence that the device creates a firm and ever vigil reminder of My dominance over the him the male slave.  The chastity device helps ingrain the sacred principle that I now control and own his manhood, his sexual pleasure, his orgasmic explosions, in short his cock, balls, body and mind belong to Me and Me alone.
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If you are a novice and this is your first device, the sea of possibilities is wide and cavernous.  I recommend a classic yet affordable model to see whether you are really into orgasm control.  Two devices that fit My criteria are:
CB-6000
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BON4
Both are sold with multiple cock ring sizes, thus allowing you to choose one that fits properly. Multiple rings allow the slave to change size based on experiences over time.  When you start to wear the device begin with a slightly larger ring and go down a size every time a ball or cock slips out of the chastity. The size of the ring is most important.  If it’s too large one of your balls will pop out, if it’s too tight it will cut your blood circulation, you may have problems with retention fluid as well.
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I will also mention a third device that has peaked My interest of late, yet requires you to pick a single cock ring size when ordering  The Holy Trainer 2 has garnished wonderful reviews for long term imprisonment and comfort.
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If you are unsure of your ring size you can purchase from MatureMetal, a package of nine sizing rings that will help you guesstimate your correct size.
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There is a second measurement you MUST take accurately to determine the best cage size to fit your worthless penis. Measure yourself when flaccid and at your smallest. This does not mean “SHRIVELED UP,” so it’s important to understand the difference.  Note, wait 2 hours after showering or being immersed in water before taking any measurements.  To determine cock length, measures under and at the base of the penis where it meets the testicles and measure to the tip of the penis. Then take your shortest measurement and subtract anywhere from 1/4” to 1/2.”
Most slaves new to chastity, have a tendency to purchase a cock cage that is way too long for their flaccid penis.  You will not hurt yourself with a shorter cage. Many long term chastity practitioners prefer extreme short cages for overall erection comfort.
Here are some helpful online resources for sizing:
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I strongly recommend to error on the small side of the equation. Oversized cock cages can actually be more painful during nocturnal erections. you should begin by wearing the chastity for increasing amounts of time: one hour, several hours, over the night etc. Slowly building to a point where wearing the device for extended periods of time becomes common place.
Again, most common mistakes in size ordering of a chastity are:
        1) Penis cage too Long
        2) Cock base ring too Small
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You are giving up control to your key holder, or possibly Me, yet many chastity devices are easily escapable.  Many serious chastity practitioners consider a Prince Albert piercing as a more secure method to prevent a chastity escape.
Again, these novice devices are made from plastics, bio-resins, and medical grade silicon.  Personally My singular preference is a male in chastity confined by cold, hard, unforgiving metal steel.  My collared slave sit owns a SteelWerks Extreme, Tiffany model and both I his Owner, and he, My property are very satisfied with the result.  At least I am totally satisfied, as there are days sit might beg to differ (wide Mistress grin).  However expect to pay a little fortune for it.
Read slave sit’s Tumblr blog post detailing My preference for steel chastity devices.
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My slaves eventually come to point of understanding that successful chastity training encapsulates both real time physical and mental chastity.  Yes, you are locked up and I hold the key, still you must always respect and destroy any mental urge to pull-out cheat or masturbate yourself to an orgasm. I and I alone, control Your sexual impulses. I set the schedule to remove and clean the device. I decide when you are permitted to touch and play with yourself. Only I can grant you a ruined orgasm or a simple unfulfilling prostate milking. Thus slave, when in chastity under Me as your Goddess, you give up all rights of fulfilling any personal sexual gratification.
To close, I see no real point in wearing a chastity device without having a key holder. The best arrangement is to have your life partner take control but if she doesn’t exist, or she isn’t interested in orgasm control you can always apply for distance orgasm control training under My strict supervision.
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The importance of orgasm control in male slavery

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People often ask Me about the motivation behind keeping men in constant chastity and exercising rigid orgasm control. Whether this something I do to punish My slaves. Well it is not, even if the slaves might perceive it as such. To exercise power over the male, also over their sexual cravings, this is nothing but a natural right for Me as their Mistress. In enjoy it to see the slave become desperate in his longing; I relish the agony in his eyes, just when I once again kill his desperate hope for a release that I had so wickedly built up before in treacherous tenderness.

The male behaviour is just so much guided by his hormones, that’s why the key of the chastity devices padlock  is the true remote control of the male brain and the symbol of the Female reign over it at the same time. By turning in his sexuality into My prison he surrenders his body and mind to Me. Control his cock, and you control his brain and thus the whole guy. Once put into chastity, he will wince at My feet in agony. It is as simple as that.

Keeping him in chastity does not mean that I will not let him cum at all. his ejaculation from time to time is necessary for his health and even more so to constantly remind him that the control over what he so strongly desires now lies in My delicate hands only. I might let them cum for various reasons, may it be for My amusement, for My satisfaction, or just as a necessary means to enslave them even more, but the male will never be able to earn it. No man is entitled for such reward as a slave. he has to understand that between Me and him that there is not that relationship  of “I give something to receive another thing in return” that has become the foundation of the Western society. This is a foundation of egocentric selfishness and I believe that it is fundamentally wrong. The devotion, the service, the obedience of the true slave is not based on expecting something in return. My slaves very well know that they cannot create any obligation on My side. Never, no matter what they do, regardless of how perfect and comprehensive their service might be. Their giving is unidirectional. I do not owe them anything. There is no synallagma between U/us. What they receive from Me, they receive as a gift.

The true slave is the one who deeply understands that basic truth. he is mine, plaything of My lust, victim of My despotism. Nothing else. And the chastity cage is the best symbol to show that status to the world and engrave it deep into his brain.

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Begging for chastity

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How eager had he been My little German slave to come to see and serve Me in Bucharest, finally, after having spent so much time in his aroused isolation, locked in My mental chastity.

So when I announced to him that he was allowed to come to see Me just to beg for even more time in chastity in front of Me, on his knees, he did not take Me really serious I think. he did not yet know Me that well back then. he should have known better…

W/we were in the city, downtown. Walking through the streets in the sun. Before W/we had left My studio, I had applied an enema to him that then over time caused so much discomfort in his belly. It introduced utter turmoil to his poor bowels… An irrestible urge to empty himself.

While he was walking on My left, just half a step behind Me as the protocol requests, he could hardly move. But I just walked on and on, chatting with him so cheerfully, pretending not to notice how he felt yet knowing so well. To pour even moe gasoline into the fire burning within him, I started caressing My own breasts as I walked, stroking them so tenderly through the satin blouse …

he did wear an anal plug that was fixed into him perfectly so it just could not be removed … it stuck there immovable … sealed him off completely.

The anal plug just had a very little tiny hole in it that would allow only the the smallest pass through … and relief … So the urge to release himself just would not stop … only so torturing slowly …. his helplessness did arouse and excite Me too much to tell … and when I looked into his eyes, I saw everything there, the humilation, the lust, the submission, the craving, the pain, just as if one is taking a shower and the water is icecold and burning hot same time.

he was begging and pleading me to help and release him. But I was only laughing at him, laughing this laugh that I knew did drive him crazy, … an innocent young girl totally aroused by her own cruelty, by her control, by her power … I threw back My head and played with My hair with My long bronze fingers … I just could not help it, having so much fun with My suffering puppy.

“you know what you have to do to make Me stop this” I purred, teasing him. “Just the right little plea and I will let pop the corks…” he could not take it any longer. So there he was, getting on his knees just in front of “Caru’ cu bere”, speaking those magic words that I had waited to hear in anticipation: “Please My Mistress, send me back to chastity, i will remain with My cock locked up, happily i will just as long as it pleases You, will remain as Your little chaste convent pupil, but please stop this, remove the plug, I am begging You please, my Mistress, please….”

For about a minute I let him kneel there, savouring every second of it. Never before in history has any man been so happy to finally see the restrooms of Caru’ cu bere I am sure.

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