Perfectly manicured long nails are always attractive, but there is something more to them, especially when they are extremely long and sharp. Long stiletto nails are a statement!
Just like high heels were in the 16th century proof that the person who wears them doesn’t have to walk too much, the woman with long nails doesn’t do housework. That’s what husbands and sissy maids exist for.
Putting clothes on, especially ones with little buttons, or made of very sheer materials, like stockings/pantyhose, can be a challenge with very long and sharp fingernails. But there is always a servant ready to help his Goddess in this matter.
Long nails are elegant but can be turned into a real weapon. No need for any tools when I want to scratch or pinch My slave’s nipples.
And, after the torture, My long nails can become tools to arouse My slave; the shiny upper part caressing the skin of My slave, My long nails being sucked and licked.
I consider power exchange relationships natural and I don’t think it is important to find reasons WHY a male would choose to submit to a Dominant Woman other than the desire to please Her out of adoration and love. However, some of My boys needed to explain their desire to be submissive. What do you think?
1 – Humiliation
You like to be embarrassed or even degraded, treated as an object, as less than what you are, by a more powerful partner.
Examples: your partner pulls you with a leash in the street, gives you a slap or a spanking in a public place … Feelings of admiration, adoration, reverence, devotion, idolatry, for the beloved woman, that you compare easily to a “goddess” : as you love Her. it’s so natural to put Her “on a pedestal” !
2 – Service
You love to meet the needs of others as a good servant should do.
Examples: light a cigarette, bring a drink, wash the dishes, do the housework, offer gifts to your owner
3 – Masochism
You like feeling pain in an erotic and sexual context. Could be because some pains, mild or strong, excite you sexually (endorphin), or because you enjoy the psychological turmoil of having to suffer for the other.
Examples: being whipped, having your nipples torture
4 – Loss of control
You like to be out of your own control, you like having to obey the will of another, you like to have no choice.
Examples: bondage, pet play
5 – Emotional Security
You like to feel confident and in intimacy, not to have to make decisions, to be appreciated and cherished, the fact that it’s your partner – not you – who is responsible, to have the impression you have arrived to destination.
Examples : to feel ourselves protected; not to worry about spending and payments; to appreciate that your partner wants to keep you under control and to knoweverything about yourself and your life.
6 – Being defeated
You like fighting an attractive person who is stronger than you, physically, emotionally or mentally, and then, having lost that fight, having to pay the price or suffer the consequences.
Examples: fantasy of being hunted, chased for a long time, and forced; or a firm discussion with your partner until she forces you to shut up in one way or another.
7 – Being raped
You like the sensation of an extreme rape game and all that it implies: surprise, pain, fear, inability to flee.
Examples : scenarios of kidnapping and rape, sodomy
8 – Self-destruction
It is a mostly unconscious motivation, but it should be included here because a small but significant number of subjects are submissive for that reason. They feel despicable and abominable, so it would be justice if someone rejected them, hurt them or even killed them.
Example: permanent imprisonment fantasy
9 – Sexual Intensity
You like to flirt with danger, experience very intense emotions, feel so incredibly alive, be pushed to extreme limits of your ability to endure pain in all lucidity… You like it because it is taboo, vicious and perverse.
Examples: a simple curiosity (what can I tolerate or endure?), extreme S & M scenes, like scat play, very strong electric torture, branding with a knife or hot iron
10 – Fetish
You are attracted by certain objects, up to adoration of these objects.
Examples: latex, women’s underwear, dirty panties, smell and feel of leather.
11 – Narcissism
You want to be the center of attention. Each of your fears and wishes are listened to carefully by your partner, if not met. During sexual activity, you are often shown to other slaves and Mistresses, by a prestigious Dominatrix. She publishes “your” clips, your writing. In reality you are treated with care like a precious treasure !
12 – Spirituality
Some people consider pain and SM as a spiritual exercise, a way to grow spiritually
Example : stoicism, flagellants in the Middle Ages
13 – Intimacy and Love
This goes much further than the “emotional security” mentioned above. Many people yearn intimacy but not particularly security. Intimacy is sharing ideas and experiences, giving to a woman (someone) a substantial place in his head, confide her all your thoughts and innermost desires, good or bad.
Example : in the course of permanent SM relationship, special but very deep intimacy develops gradually. You love your partner, and you love the love your partner
might feel gradually for you.
Please, give your personal feeling about each possible motivation:
0=not at all, 1=very little, 2=a little, 3=actually, 4=a lot, 5=extremely
Lately I received a lot of feedback from other Dominant ladies, so I decided to continue to share My experience about Female Led Relationships.
The human brain is set to be more comfortable with things that are familiar rather than novelty. Sometimes it can be a good habit (like feeling hungry at the same hour or waking up in the morning around the same time) or it can be bad habit (like the cigarette after dinner or spending too much time on social media). My desire is to help My slaves to be at the best of their abilities – in their submission towards Me and in their vanilla life. But today I am going to speak only about the first aspect – establishing rituals that will help them become better slaves/servants for Me.
I train My slaves differently and, even though there is some similitude, their training is different. But all of them must perform a kind of ritual that, through repetition, will take them deeper into submission. For example, when they serve Me in person the collaring ritual is always the same. As is removing the collar. This will prepare their minds for what is to come and will help them adjust easier.
For distance training there is a mantra that My boys must repeat before performing various tasks.
I find this easy to implement idea very useful and I would love to hear your opinion about it. Maybe you have some experiences that you would like to share?
Stockholm syndrome consists of “strong emotional ties that develop between two persons where one person intermittently harasses, beats, threatens, abuses, or intimidates the other.” *
There is something very appealing for Me to feel in total control over My slave, to make him My prisoner for a day, a weekend or even for life. To decide everything that happens with him: working time, meal time, resting time. I decide how I want to use him and for how long, how he will be punished or rewarded for his actions. Feeling My slave totally broken down, ready to obey any command makes Me feel closer to him. And help him to feel closer to Me.
I am not a big fan of social media, but I like Twitter because I can stay in contact with My Lady friends, My boys and My fans.
I know you would love to feel closer to Me, to get to know Me better. The best way to interact live with Me is to follow Me on Twitter. I regularly post selfies for My boys, slaves in training, devotees and fans and I keep all My followers updated regarding My daily activities, hobbies and travels.
If you want to never miss any clips updates for My clip store (and House of Sinn clip store) follow Me on Twitter.
Of course, Twitter is the best way to stay in contact with Me, to show Me your devotion in front of everybody and to receive direct orders from Me. From time to time you have the chance to win free clips by participating in the contests I announce on Twitter.
For many years using My slaves as full human toilets was a hard limit for Me. I always enjoyed “water-sports” – especially when I wake up in the morning, or during the night, I just click My fingers and My slave that is sleeping at the foot of My bed will follow Me to the bathroom where I am going to use him as My urinal. Fun, right?
“Hard-sports”, on the other hand, was something that I couldn’t associate with the elegance of a Woman. Too dirty, too unsafe for the recipient, too intimate for Me to do with somebody else is around.
That was the case until 3 years ago. Then I met Mistress Evilyne at a Femdom party and she told Me an amazing story about how she was using Her toilet slave. I became intrigued by the subject. My very good friend, Madame Caramel, was into it too, so I asked Her many questions about it. My views started to change, but still I had mixed feelings about it – not yet ready to try but I started to discuss about it with 2 of My slaves that I knew have an interest in it.
Every time I met My friends Mistress Evilyne and Madame Caramel, I kept asking them more details about toilet training. I could see in My friends’ eyes the passion when they told Me storied about using their slaves for full toilet services.
Soon I developed My own view regarding using My slaves for full toilet services: it is disgusting, therefore degrading for the slave, but in the same time a great proof of love and devotion to be able to accept such a gift of intimacy. I started to train one of My slaves to become My full toilet.
I have a clip with Mistress Evilyne, discussing Our training methods.
The training with My personal slave was going well, but I decided to use another bitch for the first time. he had lots of experience as a toilet slave and I wanted My first experience to be perfect. And it was!
From that point I started to enjoy more and more using males for full toilet services. Not just any willing submissive male but only several very lucky recipients. Often I filmed the play for My private use (and theirs). Because of the intimacy of it, I was never willing to make the private clips available for My fans to buy (except for some custom clips I filmed) but I decided to make one (just one!) available for all My fans to buy.
It gives Me an amazing feeling of power, of being adored and worshiped. Seeing a male willingly accept My waste and consume it not because it is his kink, but because I am his Goddess and he understands there is nothing more humiliating than eating My shit. There is no greater proof of love and submission than accepting My divine food.
People often ask Me, whether there can be love in a D/s relationship. And quite often they are then surprised about My answer: Love is not only an option but a condition and the foundation of a true D/s relationship.
For people with a vanilla background this is hard to understand. How can it be love when a woman in leather boots severely whips a male who is tied to a whipping post and screaming in pain? How can a man feel love for a woman who finds pleasure in letting him crawl behind her on a dog leash during her high street shopping tour?
But not only vanilla people are astonished when I tell them about love in a D/s relationship. Sometimes fellow professional Mistresses express their reservation too. For some the submissive male is an anonymous client in the best case. More often than not he is just a worthless and despised irrelevant piece of crap.
For Me, this is totally different. And maybe this one of the main reasons that professional sessions with men that I do not have a personal relationship with have become rather uninteresting for Me.
So, when talking about love in a D/s relationship let´s look at the male perspective first: Does the slave love the Mistress who punishes him relentlessly? Of course he does. If he wouldn´t love her, he couldn’t do that: Stand the pain, take the humiliation. But wait a second I can hear the vanilla people say: The slave in the D/s relationship does he not exactly want this? Does he not enjoy the pain, relish the torture, indulge in it? Well let Me tell you: In most cases he does not. A masochist would. But I am not talking about masochists here. I am talking about “s”ubmissives. To tell You the true: I am not really interested in masochists. A masochists gets his personal kick out of the pain. It is about his kick and I am not interested in serving as a kick supplier for males. I am interested in My own lust and fulfillment. And so should any male who tries to fight his way through the thistly thorn hedge that securely surrounds My polyandry house.
The submissive male is totally different from the masochist. There is a clear distinction between them that surprisingly seems to go unnoticed by the general public. The submissive is after submission. It is about subordinating under a stronger will, under a creature of a higher order, under female divinity. The submissive seeks to proof his allegiance, his devotion, his surrender to the Domina. His objective is to pamper and serve her to the best of his abilities. Her bliss is the centre of his live. And what more valuable concept could there be for a male?
Enduring pain and humiliation for the true submissive is not a means to selfishly satisfy hinmself and his male lust. It is a means to show the Domina that he endures that for Her. It is nothing but a proof of love. Without a love deeply felt and routed and founded within himself he could not go through all that. The whipping, the pain, the humiliation, the degradation. Only love can carry him through that. So in the whipping the message of the Dom is (at least in general) not “I torture you because I want to punish you” it is definitely not “I torture you because I hate you.”. It is “I torture you so that you can show your love to Me.” As incomprehensible as this may seem to the vanilla word, the whipping so becomes an act of love.
But what about the other side of the whip, what about the Domina and her feelings towards the slave? Well I have to say I have encountered many different perspectives of fellow Mistresses on this issue. I cannot and will not speak for all of them here. I only want to talk about Myself. And for Me it is very clear. I have a personal relation to only a very limited number of submissives who were lucky enough to get so far. In these D/s relationships I surely feel the love of the slave and I respond to it. I graciously open Myself for his feelings and encourage him to follow this path. I am deeply convinced that the slave needs that assertion from the Domina that she understands what he is telling her in his submission: “i offer myself to You, please accept my body and soul as a sacrifice.” It is then when the two souls of the D and the s can communicate without words, when they meet in a world of their own.
So, then, do I love My slaves who offer and submit themselves to Me? Well … yes, but not in a classic romantic way. No, My love is quite different from that… First of all I am very proud of My slaves and devotees. They are like faithful, valuable and useful human dogs. I cherish what they are and do for Me to make My life so wonderful. Seeing them humbly serve Me and follow My every order makes My heart sing with joy.
But it is even more than that, more than mere pride of ownership…. I love their abandonment, their unconditioned dedication, their addiction and commitment to Me. So what I deeply love in them is their fathomless love for Me. A love that they can express by overcoming their inhibitions, by enduring My whippings, by silently suffering under the high heels of My boots, by praying to My divinity. It is this love that makes them special and can make Me love them in return, though in a different way.
I don’t have a Tumblr account at the moment, so you, My devotee, can spread My religion by opening a Tumblr fan page dedicated to Me.
Very important! Make a clear statement that the page is not Mine but is opened for Me. A fan page rather than an official account. See horstie-fm Tumblr page as an example.
here you can find resources that you can use for your fan page.
follow other accounts, try to get as many followers as possible – your work is in vain if you don’t have several thousands followers.
Add links to My website, clips4sale store, Twitter etc.
Make sure all (or at least the vast majority of) the pictures have a visible watermark. If not, you can add it. My font is Engebrechtre.
Very often I receive emails from submissive men willing to offer themselves to Me. I believe in polyandry and I am interested to own up to 5 personal slaves and several distance collared pets (that I can’t meet very often but I am in contact with constantly). Obviously I can’t and I don’t want to accept just anybody. My relationships that I already have are very fulfilling but require lots of My time and attention. It would be impossible to offer My time to any selfish stranger willing to jerk off at My command for free.
Therefore, even though money is not of a high priority in My life, I’m expecting you, as My fan, devotee or collared slave, to contribute to My well-being and happiness at the best of your abilities:
Buy My clips! All of them! from both of My stores: EzadaSinn and HouseofSinn. Producing clips is My main activity, buying My clips will increase My revenue and My popularity in the Clips4Sale rank.
Spread My religion, promote My clips, keep an eye out for My stolen clips, edit pictures for Me, work for Me! For those of you who can’t pamper Me, you can still get My attention by working for Me: as a devotee on Twitter, Fetlife etc. Do not bother Me asking to choose a name for you or what you should do specifically – instead of wasting time to explain you what to do you step by step, I’d better do it Myself. If you will work hard for Me, I will notice you. I offer My time and attention to My devotees, as much as I can, but being needy and annoying is the best way to be instantly kicked out from My life and to get your emails blocked.
Obviously, becoming My collared slave is a process that takes time. First you will be taken into consideration, then you will have to take My training. The training may take from 6 months up to a year. After a first successful face-to-face meeting, a trial period of 100 days will start. At the end of this period, a slave can become Mine, a proud collared slave. It’s very important for every sub to understand that being owned is not necessarily better. Every position in the hierarchy is important and equally pleasant for both Me and pet. Enjoy every step of it!
If you are My fan or devotee and you want to learn more about My lifestyle, you must set up a Twitter account and follow Me. I post new pictures almost every day (most of them real time selfies), I write about My experiences and I am in touch with My followers.
If you want to dedicate your profile to Me and show Me your devotion this is what you should do:
choose your unique Twitter name, ideally similar with the one you use on other kinky profiles (so Me and other people that you are in contact with will know who you are). If you were in contact with Me (online training, devotee, etc) you may ask Me for a name. Don’t call yourself “Ezada’s slave” out of nowhere – it is rude to pretend to be something that you are not.
set your profile picture – it should be a picture with you (not necessarily with your face), an avatar, or a picture with Me and you (if you have any). It’s cute when subs put photos of their Dominas as their profile pictures, but I find this annoying since it’s easy to mistake the Domina’s profile with the sub’s profile.
set your header photo – if you want to dedicate your profile to Me, you should put a picture with Me here. By setting a profile picture with you, but a header picture with Me, nobody will mistake your profile with Mine, but everybody who visits your profile will know that you dedicated your profile to Me
A perfect example – slave sit’s Twitter profile
start to follow people – follow Me, My lady friends and My official subs first. Feel free to follow as many people as you like. The more the better. Don’t forget to turn on notifications from Me (the yellow star under My header if you are using a mobile device) so you will see every time I post a new Tweet. When you follow lots of people it will be more difficult not to miss anything.
be active – comment, re-tweet, love. Don’t be shy. But think twice before you post a new Tweet.
work for Me – help promote My clips and spread My religion – retweet My tweets, take printscreens from the clips you bought and tell people about them, post pictures from and links to My clips. Show Me your devotion, your genuine willingness to make My life easier and more pleasant. See some of My favorite devotees’ work below. Good examples for you all, My devotees, to follow.
My slave in training “pink poodle” advertising My latest clip on C4S using a still from the free GIF and linking it to My C4S store
“horstie fm” buys all My clips. he takes screenshots and publishes them on his Tumblr blog dedicated to Me, always crediting My photos, as everyone should
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