Redefining My property
Through the growth of social media, films and television, FemDom has begun to permeate the vanilla consciousness. Yet, there are many misconceptions regarding the nature of FemDom relationships which prevent them from truly being accepted. The terminology used can aid to fuel these misconceptions, and that is what I wish to cover here. In particular the terminology used when referring to a Domina’s property…….slave. The term slave is everywhere in FemDom, Domina’s use it to refer to Their owned males, it is often used to refer to males in general, “unowned” slaves (a contradiction in terms) are abundant. Yet, this term conveys a very different impression to the vanilla world than is the reality of a Female Led relationship.
The term slave carries with it a lot of historical, and current day, baggage. The image is one of non-consensual forced slavery. In history, from the ancient worlds of Egypt, Greece, Rome etc, to the later empires of the 19th century, the term slave conjures the image of people being forced through force of arms from their homes and countries. To be taken by force, to work and suffer through no choice of their own. If we move to the modern day, the news is frequented by stories of modern-day slavery, of people being treated brutally and forced to carry out demeaning and degrading acts against their will.
If it is to be truly accepted in the vanilla world, it is this image which FemDom needs to distance itself from, the image of non-consensuality. Sure, the Domina’s property will be made to carry out demeaning and degrading tasks for the amusement of it’s Owner, it may be whipped or punished. This may not sound so different, but there is a key difference, the words “against their will”. In a true FemDom relationship, the property has given itself into the power exchange of its own volition. The male has accepted its place under the rule of the Female and willingly accepts the punishments and humiliation. These acts are not merely an exchange of power, a way of enforcing the rule of the Female, they are a link between the two parties. There is trust between the Domina and Her property, the Domina trust that Her orders will be followed, the property trusts that it’s Owner will have it’s well being at heart. The humiliations and pain are a symbol of the property’s love for its Owner, the Domina loves Her property for its sacrifice.
It is also true that the term slave has become associated more with bdsm sex and not so much with the true dynamics of a FemDom relationship. A FemDom relationship is much more than bdsm sex, it is about the male submissive serving his Goddess in any way She requires to make Her life easier and more pleasurable, it is not, as is often perceived, merely servicing kinks.
The reality of a FemDom relationship is far removed from the concept which the vanilla world has of the term slave. It is for this reason, I have taken the decision to cease referring to my properties as slaves and have now decided to use the term chattel.
Chattel – “a piece of personal property, including something that can be moved, or rights such as copyright and patents, but not usually including land and buildings”
Once a male has given itself into a total power exchange with Me, it becomes my property. I believe the term chattel accurately represents what the male is (personal property), without carrying the baggage which so surrounds the term slave. It is My dream that one day FemDom will be fully accepted in the world, and by changing the terminology We can help to break some of those misconceptions which so hinder this.
Imagine a world in which Female Ownership of a male is fully accepted. I believe that by changing the vanilla world’s perception of FemDom relationships We can achieve this dream.
Jacobi R.
25.10.2018 @ 06:56
Ima 21 African American from the United States and have wanted to be a toilet slave for a really long time for a beautiful woman. Is there any way that could happen.
Gary J Wells
26.10.2018 @ 03:51
Mistress Ezada Quote
‘It is My dream that one day FemDom will be fully accepted in the world, and by changing the terminology We can help to break some of those misconceptions which so hinder this.
Imagine a world in which Female Ownership of a male is fully accepted. I believe that by changing the vanilla world’s perception of FemDom relationships We can achieve this dream.’
Mistress Ezada such beautiful words, that resound within my whole being, as i do imagine and pray each day, that soon in the future FemDom is fully accepted in the World. How wonderfully amazing the World would be if all men submitted and surrendered completely to Female Ownership and control. A World where matriarchy and Fem Dom rule presided throughout, where the testosterone within men was subdued by increases in serotonin, having all men dote on their dominant females to love, care, pamper and idolise them. My vision actually goes further Mistress Ezada, where all but a small percentage of earth men are locked in chastity, the only ones not young, virile and strong. They are also used, as sexual slaves to fertilise all women. Men all owned and dominated, know their place, and are either these few used as sex slaves free virile and with much stamina, or are as most, locked in chastity, there only to orally please and pamper, wonderfully tormented in their blissfully aching denial… How i pray for this World Mistress Ezada, that won’t come in my life time but I pray does for some future fortunate generation.
I believe a Wold of Fem Dom matriarchy rule would be one of no wars, less hopefully or maybe no famine, more productive, effective and efficient, all through the increased zeal of men due to the nurturing nature of all women… idealistically, yes of course, would it be, I think it could, in any case it would be far far better than this World patriarchy governed mostly by men!
Selm ail
29.10.2018 @ 14:52
Thanks ezada sinn
martha
06.03.2020 @ 13:29
Greatings Mistress!
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shoking the slave for any hard or fast movements Mistress, and chained to the small room, the slave can be put in all the time except for Heavy Outside Harmfull Punishment for the slave body to endure Mistress, and Mistress To Badly Be Has Sadistic Has Desiered Mistress, still and never Any Limits To Make the slave suffer hell 24/7 mistress, Please Mistress!
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Please Mistress, may Mistress Controle the slave life and make it a pain living hell locked in a room making latex outfits for life, And Only comming out for the most heavy pain Mistress, Please Mistress?
slave sissy martha
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21.10.2020 @ 02:48
Women claims they need rights and equality. Rights are already granted. Gaining equality is a slow process. Now almost most of the women particularly in East Asia and in Nordic countries, workforce has 50-50 gender ratio.
There are other people who wants to revive the system of slavery, which was abolished after a war.
How can you people think like that.
Ezada
21.10.2020 @ 09:15
A consensual power exchange relationship is nothing like slavery, hence the change of terms. Have you read my article?
Alan
04.02.2021 @ 14:05
“Imagine a world in which Female Ownership of a male is fully accepted.”
I often imagine it and wish that the inevitable rule by Women over men will soon be reality. It will bring a wonderful future for both Women and their male chattel.