Kink Queens Magazine is a celebration of Female Supremacy and Dominant Women, and I am pleased to announce My devotees and fans that I am on the cover of the 14th issue. Read an exclusive interview with Me where I talk about My kinks and My ideas about Female Supremacy on pages 1-17.
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Read the interview I gave to Clips4Sale: http://blog.clips4sale.com/b/one-on-one-interview-mistress-ezada/
1) What is/are your store name(s) and number(s)?
2) Please give our readers an introduction on yourself, your store(s), and the role you play in bringing these fetish clips to life.
I believe in female supremacy and My utopic dream is to convert as many men and women to the wonderful world of female led relationships. Most of the clips published on My store show real play between Me and My collared slaves. Sometimes the clips are filmed with the camera on a tripod, sometimes My personal slave does the camera work. I hope that My clips are not just an entertainment tool, but will also help men accept their submissive fantasies and better understand My philosophy about female supremacy.
3) When did you first develop an interest in the fetish world? What attracted you to this scene?
It is impossible to name an exact moment when I started to be interested in the fetish world. I believe all the fetishes start when we are very young, but only as adults we realize that the pleasure of touching leather (for example) gives us sexual arousal. So I guess it was there, in Me. I always liked to be in the center of attention, so using My sexuality to tease men was something I started as a young adult. And making clips was the best way to tease thousands and thousands of men.
4) What specialty is your studio most known for, and what are some of the other fetishes viewers will see in your videos?
My specialty is Female Domination, especially orgasm control (ruined orgasms, chastity, forced male orgasms), whipping (corporal punishment), leather fetish, boot domination, female supremacy, strap-on. I am not very interested in role play – I prefer to film the real story behind the clip and not a fantasy.
5) What do you personally like to see in porn, and what turns you on in your personal life?
In porn My personal preferences are for Femdom clips with arrogant ladies wearing leather (the attitude of the lady is what arouses Me the most), cuckold humiliation and Femdom sex.
In My personal life I usually play with My collared slaves in the same way I do in My clips, plus some more sexual games that are too explicit for My store (ass and pussy worship, Femdom sex)
6) What are some of your turnoffs – both in porn and your personal life?
I don’t really have turnoffs in porn. Some things arouse Me, some are boring, but none are a real turn off.
In My personal life I don’t like men that smell bad and those that are not submissive enough.
7) In your opinion, what makes a good fetish scene?
For Me the attitude is what matters the most in a fetish scene.
8) Are there any fetishes that intrigue you, but you’ve yet to explore for one reason or another?
I am very attracted by the idea of branding My slave with a hot iron. Also, cuckold really interests Me, but that one I started to explore already.
9) Will you be attending any conventions this year? Any industry events fans should look forward to?
The events that I will definitely attend this year are the DommeTrip in Costa Rica in October 2015 and the Norfolk Femdom Weekend in September 2015. I haven’t decided about any other event, but if I do, I will write about it on my blog (as I always do).
10) What do you like to do when you’re not making fetish videos?
I love to travel! I was born in Romania, during communist times, and being able to travel is something really special since it was almost impossible to go out of Romania before 1989. When I’m traveling I usually take My camera with Me and I often film how I use My personal slaves. On My website you can read some blog entries about My “femdom travel”. When I’m not traveling I like to read history books, fiction and sometimes erotica, watch documentaries.
11) Fetish activities aside, what’s your idea of the perfect evening?
Being lazy at home, reading an interesting book and having My feet massaged.
12) If you had to define yourself in one word, what would that word be and why?
Female – I believe I am very feminine and this is the attribute that defines Me the best.
13) Please share an unknown fact that your followers would be surprised to learn about you?
My clips turn Me on so much that I often start masturbating while watching them. Especially if I am wearing leather in them.
14) What does the future hold for the fetish film world in your opinion?
I believe people will always watch fetish films but I think the technology will be better and better – 3D clips, holograms, animated 3D models, etc. The equipment for making clips is more and more accessible, so I believe more people will be attracted by the amateur clips (to watch and to be seen in).
15) Thanks for giving us a little of your time. Anything else you’d like to share with our readers?
I want to thank all My followers for buying My clips and all the wonderful feedback I receive. And if you want to read more about Me, check My website: www.MistressEzada.com
How do You wish to be addressed?
All submissives should address to Me as Lady, Ma’am or “Doamna” (which is the Romanian for Madam). Only My properties are allowed to use Mistress or “Stapana” (Romanian for Mistress).
What celebrity are You often told You resemble?
I find My appearance to be rather singular.
What do You consider to be Your greatest feature?
My wicked mind with vivid imagination.
What would We be surprised to learn that You have never done?
Funny, I can’t think of something.
What is the best advice You have ever received?
A dominant woman should inspire fantasies, but never entirely fulfill them.
What are you “totally addicted” to?
My kinky lifestyle.
What do You not ever leave home without?
What do You wish you could be more of?
More of a perfectionist.
How long have You been in the lifestyle?
In 2011 I had been for 6 years in the lifestyle.
Would You consider Yourself to have had a regular childhood?
I guess so. I was very fortunate to have a loving family environment and lots of friends.
What is your favorite beverage? (can be hot/cold, alcoholic/non-alcoholic, etc).
Water, and sometimes red wine.
Do you celebrate Christmas or a similar holiday at this time of year, and if so, what do you enjoy most about it?
No, I don’t celebrate any particular holidays; I try to live My life as if every day is a holiday.
What’s the sexiest thing a submissive has ever or could ever say to you?
I have been told many beautiful sexy things, but the most exciting is when I’m told My pleasure is all that matters.
Tell Us about Your first Femdom experience, including a detailed description of how You felt.
In 2002, I had a vanilla boyfriend. At that time, I knew nothing about the concept of BDSM. I started to use My boyfriend for oral services only, denying him orgasms and cuckolding him. I enjoyed humiliating and torturing him all the time. After a few years I left him, but the desire to use men persisted. I found out that I’m not the only one with such fantasies in 2005, when I found more information about it on the internet. Nowadays I’m addicted to Femdom.
What is the last book You read?
De Sade – Justine.
What is Your favorite movie?
The Diving Bell and the Butterfly.
Do You consider Yourself a Pro Domme, Lifestyle Domme, or a combination of both?
I’m a combination of both. I have two personal servants but time to time I choose male subjects to have sessions with.
If You were to choose one word to describe the feeling You experience when Dominating a submissive, which word would You choose?
What is Your general view of men?
They are the smartest and most precious pets, and all you have to do is to train them well.
Does Dominating another bring You sexual pleasure? Tell Us about how so and why do You feel this way.
Of course, that is the point of Domination, isn’t it? I can use My slave in every way I want in order to achieve climax.
Which lifestyle books and magazines would You recommend to others?
The Mistress Manual – Mistress Lorelei, How to Capture a Mistress – Karen Martin.
What is Your line of work?
How does Your work affect Your Femdom lifestyle?
I try to keep them separate.
How do Your Female Supremacy views affect Your attitude within Your work environment?
I learned how to use My skills to manipulate men into getting what I need.
Does Your family know of Your lifestyle?
Do You have friends in the lifestyle?
Do You have vanilla friends who know of Your lifestyle?
If Your favorite vanilla Girlfriend were to ask You why She should try dominating Her man, what reasons would You give Her?
Telling her that she can get anything she wants from a man, while making him love her even more in the process.
Have You ever been to a lifestyle party?
Have You ever played in public?
What is the single most important mistake a submissive man makes when first approaching a Dominant Woman?
Asking her to fulfill his fantasies.
What do You look for when reading an e-mail message from a submissive?
They should use proper grammar and addressing, then they should tell Me about them, not only as submissives with fantasies, but as persons.
Do You currently have a slave or submissive?
Are You seeking other slaves or submissives?
Do You consider Yourself straight or bi-sexual?
Do You prefer Your slaves or submissives to be straight or bi-sexual?
Straight, but able to sexually interact with other men if I ask them to.
Which rules do You require a slave or submissive to live by? For instance, rules regarding use of furniture, walking behind You, calling in, chastity, and so forth.
Chastity, sitting when urinating, taking care of his body and mind, no smoking, meditating about him being My slave for a given period of time every day.
What is Your favorite lifestyle activity?
Tease and denial.
Do You feminize Your servants?
Yes, but not all of them.
Does Your domination apply to all levels of Your relationship? For instance, do You or would You control Y/your finances?
I would control the finances in a TPE relationship.
Do You cuckold Your slaves or submissives with other lovers?
The idea of cuckolding turns Me on, and I usually prepare My slaves for being cuckolded, though I don’t do it too often. I sometimes cuckold them with My girlfriend.
Do You live a 24/7 FemDom lifestyle?
Yes, as much as it is possible.
If You are in a 24/7 FemDom relationship, would You describe Your relationship as stronger than a vanilla relationship?
Of course, the intimacy in a D/s relationship is so much deeper. He will offer himself entirely and I take the responsibility to make him a complete person through accepting his true submissive nature.
When a disagreement occurs between You and your slave or submissive, how is it resolved? Is Your word the final word?
I make Myself clear that it is My way or the highway.
Do You set benchmarks for a male to prove his devotion to You?
Yes, the pain and humiliation suffered by the male is like a tribute to Me. To prove his devotion he should accept pain even if he isn’t a masochist. It’s all about pushing his limits.
Do You judge a slave or submissive’s willingness to embarrass himself as proof of his desire to serve You?
Yes, he should disregard his pride if I request it.
What advice would You offer a Woman whose male partner has just asked to dominate him and She knows nothing of the lifestyle?
Don’t let him cum.
How do You discipline Your servant(s)?
I take some of their rights – abstinence for a longer period of time, interdiction to touch Me or even see Me, not engaging in their favorite activities.
Do You use chastity on Your servant(s)?
Yes, I always do.
How do You control the orgasms of Your servant(s)?
First I explain them how important it is for a slave for Me to control his orgasms. If he wants to experience submissiveness at the highest level, he should entrust Me with his satisfaction. Usually they understand the necessity of orgasm control and only have orgasms when allowed to. I also use chastity devices.
Do You use strap-ons on Your servant(s)?
What do the next five years hold for You?
I would like to contribute to the development of the Femdom community in Romania by opening, together with other Dommes, a slave farm, where male creatures are used for the pleasure of Women. As for My personal life, I would like to further develop My 24/7 relationship with My “alpha slave”.
Share with Us Your fears when You first became involved in the lifestyle.
I was afraid I would not find a submissive life partner who can be My total slave 24/7, but at the same time have a spine, a dominant nature towards everyone else, a strong man in every aspect of his life. Lately I have overcome this fear.
Do You have any words of encouragement for new Dommes?
As long as you really enjoy it, it’s impossible to not be a good Domme, as long as it is safe, sane and consensual. Dominate with love, not hatred.
Doamna Ezada Sinn is located in Bucharest, Romania
Q: Mistress, would You kindly tell us a little about your background and how you became involved in Domination?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: Sure. I was born and brought up in a little town in Romania and then went to university in Bucharest. I had those dominant phantasies since I were a young girl and my sexuality awoke. Seeing men suffer under my hands and feet has been arousing for me as long as I can think back. Even though I did not know why that was at first.
My first serious contacts with the professional BDSM scene came about in 2008 when I went to the OWK for filming. I was fascinated by this Femdom world and the clips where a huge success. They are still out there for sale. From then on everything developed quite fast.
Q: Mistress, what advise would you give to slaves who wish to serve you?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: Be attentive. Try to be useful. Don´t concentrate on yourself but focus on the Mistress. What can you do for me, how can you be beneficial. Don´t steel my time with lengthy written introductions but make sure and let me see that you have made yourself familiar with my works and thoughts that have been published by myself and by others about me.
Q: Mistress, what are your favourite types of session?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: That depends on my mood really. I have so many kinky ideas and always like to explore new things so that no session is really like the other. There are however some preferences that accompany me from the beginning:
Of course I always enjoy a classic whipping session when my whips are taking turns on the slaves back until it is covered with red welts over and over.
Then humiliation is essential. It is the core of every session, degrading the slave, making him look, feel, act, finally really be pathetic. I love that. Comes very good especially in public.
Finally Tease and Denial sure is another of my favourites. I like to bring a man close to the edge of release, keep him there for hours and then lock him away again in chastity. I´ve turned grown men into weeping little boys that way without any need to whip or slap them.
Q: Mistress, you seem to be very active with filming. What do you like better, the film or the session work?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: Well there is not really that much difference between the two. Filming a clip always is a session same time. And what I like about the filming is that it gives me the chance to show my work to the whole world and not keep it limited to the slave who happens to be there in that moment with me.
Q: Mistress, do you attend any clubs relating to BDSM/Fetish lifestyle?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: Sometimes I do but not that often. Recently I have been to quite some private parties that were hosted by other Mistresses. There we had some serious fun that went a good deal beyond what you can do in the more public environment of a popular fetish club.
Q: Mistress, What do you prefer to wear during sessions?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: Ah, once again, a variety of stuff. Momentarily my favorites are my new custom made leather boots that were produced according to my own design and the wonderful stretch leather pants that I recently bought in Rome. In fact I am also wearing that right now. Other than that I am an absolute fan of corsets and own a real collection of those.
Q: Mistress, please could you describe your style of dominance?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: Hmmm. Difficult question… I would say that I am very sensual yet at the same time also strict and cruel. If it goes well in a session, the slave will see and feel how I derive my pleasure and arousal from the pain I inflict on him. By accepting the pain from my hands with open mind and body he will do his part to build that connection through which we will exchange energy that can become as powerful as heavy current.
Q: Mistress, do you also offer other services such as phone domination, email/online, training?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: Yes I do, mostly online training. Long distance chastity training is one of my specialties. Amazing how far you can get with this and how tight can become the control over a man that might never even see me in person. Check my website for details.
Q: Mistress, what are the things You most like and dislike in a slave?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: I like his obedience to me, his willingness to serve, to please, to pamper me. I love to see when a slave does overcome his inhibitions not for his own joy and satisfaction but for mine. I hate selfishness, male posing, bragging, inattentiveness. I do not deal with such kind of people.
Q: Mistress, what are Your favourite gifts from a slave?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: Ah, a girl can never have enough gifts, can she (laughs). It is not so much about the gift itself but more about the process of offering. I love to see when a slave has really thought deeply about how to delight me. When he has listened carefully to my likes and dislikes and then comes up with something that I might have mentioned just by the way some time ago. I love to seem him sacrificing for me. And there is a simple rule that does not only work with Dominas but basically with all women: You’re hardly ever on the wrong side if you come with gold and fine jewelry.
Q: Mistress, are there any current projects you could tell us about?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: There are quite a few but it is still too early to talk about some of them. I am currently preparing to move to Western Europe to be more flexible with my works and travel. Also preparations have already started for my next Femdom Summer Camp, FSC#2, that I will host for a week in a villa in Southern Europe, presumably in the end of June 2015. Follow my blog for details and updates on that.
Then in May 2015 there will be a very special photo sessions with three wonderful other Mistresses in Stuttgart; Germany. I am very much looking forward to that but have to keep details confidential for the time being.
Q: Mistress, what advice would you give to a novice who has never visited a Mistress before?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: Take your heart in both hands and just go there. Talk to her openly and honestly about your thoughts and fears and limits. Do not pretend what you really are not. Be polite and listen carefully. Simple easy rules really but it is weird how often those are stupidly broken. Follow those rules and things will most probably turn out just fine.
Q: Mistress, do You own any 24/7 slaves?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: Yes, I have a personal slave whom I own completely. He lives for me. Then there are some few collared slaves that are allowed to see me on a regular basis.
Q: Mistress, what about those slaves looking for a long term serious commitment of slavery to You. What would be Your requirements of such a slave?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: Currently I am looking for no one. There was one place that became vacant recently but that was taken quickly by a lucky successor. So I can only give a general advice: The key is in the usability. How can the person in question make my life easier, richer, more joyful, more pleasant, more comfortable. In a spiritual and also in a very practical sense. Not just for an hour or two but constantly. There are only very few out there who finally prove to be worth it.
Q: Mistress may You please tell us how we may obtain more details about you and how to serve you?
Doamna Ezada Sinn: This is easy. Turn to my website www.mistressezada.com. There you will find everything about me, my plans and projects and even much more. For real time coverage follow me on Twitter @Mistress_Ezada and for my clips have a look at my store on clips4sale.
Mistress, thank you very much for the interesting conversation.
Oh, my pleasure, thanks a lot for your questions.
1. For those who don’t know you, who is Lady Ezada Sinn?
For the most people on My street, I am just an elegant and mysterious female neighbor. But for those that have the opportunity to serve Me, I am the embodiment of their boldest Femdom fantasies. I one phrase, I can describe Myself as a lifestyle pro-Domina, who likes to use Her male subjects as much as possible for Her personal pleasure and amusement.
I live in Bucharest, but I spend a lot of time traveling through Europe with My personal servants.
2. Why do you enjoy dominating?
Even since before I found out about the Femdom concept, I liked to dominate men erotically. Over time, when I started to have sessions with submissive men (back in 2004), I discovered that dominating men is the only way in which I can get erotic satisfaction. I like to always be in control, to see men suffer for Me, accept the most degrading humiliations, how they give up their pride and ego in order to please Me. Being a Woman, My strength is not in brute force, but in taking control over men, over their dreams, secrets, shame, tears, desires, cocks and orgasms! Considering the above, how can I not enjoy dominating?
3. What made you decide to become a professional dominatrix?
In 2009, I wrote to the people from the Other World Kingdom, and I was invited for a video shooting session. After My movies have been released, I was contacted by submissives from around the world for professional services. I think that becoming a professional Dominatrix was a natural step, because this way I can combine business with pleasure.
4. Did you lose anything due to the decision of becoming a professional dominatrix?
In the beginning I kept a regular part-time job, but after a time, My co-workers found out about My preferences and I had to quit. That moment was not very pleasant, but now I realize it was the best thing that could happen to Me.
5. What are the downsides of the profession? And the advantages?
In Romania there is no legal framework for this activity, which makes Me spend a great part of My time outside the country, where people easier understand and accept alternative lifestyles. As for advantages: I am practically living My dream, most of the time I feel great with My slaves, I can wear beautiful leather, latex and other fetish costumes that turn Me on so much, I have My own dungeon and access to high quality equipped studios. Moreover, I have had the occasion to meet quality submissive males, people of brilliant intelligence and a vast culture, which made My life more beautiful and easy, pampering Me, adoring Me, serving Me, fulfilling My every wish.
6. Could you describe the BDSM scene in Romania?
In Romania the BDSM scene is at its beginnings, but it will definitely develop in the near future. Online, there are a few BDSM personal ads websites, blogs and message boards (like bdsmforum.ro, of which I am one of the founding members). As for the offline scene, in this moment there is only one place completely dedicated to BDSM: the Baroque Mansion, a luxurious place at the highest European standards that definitely deserves being visited by any Femdom follower.
7. What do you think about 24/7 relationships?
A 24/7 relationship is not appropriate for any submissive, thus it should not be regarded as the highest degree of submission that any slave should reach. At the same time, for Me it is the perfect way to train and use My personal servants. I am interested especially in 24/7 total power exchange relationships and although I already have one such relationship, I would like to develop one or two more new ones.
8. Do you prefer fetishist or masochist slaves?
I like submissives that put My desires on top of everything and accept pain even if they are not masochist, or are ready to adore My feet for hours even if this is not a fetish for them. I like to feel that I really have control over the male subject, and am not just an instrument for satisfying his submissive pleasures. Because of this, most times before the first session with a submissive, I want him to tell Me his limits and not so much his preferences, and during the sessions I will discover a common denominator for My and his pleasures. It is not important if they are masochist or fetishist, important is their obedience and the willingness to please Me.
9. Do you believe wearing fetish clothing is essential for dominating?
Although fetish clothing are often important to make Me or My subject enter the mood, they are not essential. Wearing Dominatrix clothes and having a whip in your hand is not equivalent to dominating a man. Depending on My mood, you may find Me corseted and costumed in leather or latex, with an arsenal of toys. At other times, there may be nothing more than an everyday situation and My overactive imagination. I can control My slaves with nothing more than a look or a word.
10. Do you also dominate women? If so, do you see any difference?
Sometimes I use submissive females in My sessions, but usually dominating them along males. I don’t have the same pleasure torturing women, I mostly prefer to train them as sluts and as bondage bunnies.
11. Is it possible to keep a long distance BDSM relationship? Do you use Internet for dominating slaves?
Of course it is possible to keep a long distance BDSM relationship, but this depends very much on the willingness of the two partners to maintain this relationship. Communication and sincerity are of utmost importance in this case. I use the internet to dominate My long-distance slaves. My specialties are orgasm control and sissy training. The training of every slave is customized, trying every time to extend their limits, educating every one of them separately, according to their potential.
12. Do you believe you were born or that you have become into a domina?
I don’t believe in the concept of “natural born Domina”, I think our life experiences, the environment that we come from, personality, etc. mix together to shape our sexual preferences. Over time, I realized that this is what defines Me sexually: being into Femdom.
13. What are your favorite practices?
My favorite practices change according to My mood and the person in front of Me. Nevertheless, among My all-time favorites are: tease and denial, orgasm control, obedience training, humiliation, face sitting, pony training, whipping, caning, feet worship, predicament bondage, sensory deprivation, imprisonment.
14. Could you tell us any anecdote that happened to you during a session?
I choose to be discreet regarding My private sessions.
15. What is the most beautiful thing you have been told during a session?
I hear a lot of nice words from My submissives, but the most beautiful things have been told by their gestures. Seeing him trembling from humiliation, with tears of pain coming down his cheek, knowing that he submits to Me totally because of love – this is the most beautiful thing he can “say” to Me.
16. What is your favorite scenario?
My favorite scenarios are the ones that include a submissive that I know and has very wide limits, everything taking place in a well-equipped dungeon. Also, I have a special passion for outdoor pony training.
17. What are your vanilla hobbies?
I like reading, visiting new places, mountain trekking, debating interesting topics.
18. Could you describe us the slave of your dreams?
The slave of My dreams is a balanced man, very intelligent and educated, willing to submit to Me totally with pride and dignity. Our relationship is based on trust and strong mutual attachment. He must be willing to satisfy Me erotically, physically, spiritually, emotionally and financially.
19. Do you enjoy more short sessions (1 or 2 hours) or confinement for several days?
With a submissive that I have met before, a longer term confinement is preferred. But for a first meeting, a 1-2 hour session is the best option.
20. Would you like to tell something to our readers?
If you want to know more about Me, you are welcome to visit My website www.mistressezada.com, which is updated weekly with new photos and info about the events I attend. Also, together with Baroque Mansion, we are going to launch a new project dedicated to the total supremacy of Women over men.
A color – red;
Please introduce yourself
My stage name is Ezada Sinn. I am a 30 years old lifestyle / pro Domina from Romania.
When did you first realize you were into kink?
I first realized that my erotic interests are categorized as BDSM in 2005, when I discovered an on-line dating site dedicated to people from the fetish / BDSM community, and seeing their banner I realized I’m irresistibly attracted to the image (I don’t remember the exact image, but it involved restraints). But, since I now know what kink is, I realize that I had BDSM fantasies (which I didn’t know how to define) before I even started my sex life.
How long have you been a professional dominatrix and how did you get started?
I wished so much to go to OWK (the Other World Kingdom, in the Czech Republic), so in the beginning of 2009 I wrote them an email to see how I could get there to supervise and administer punishments to the slaves in the jail, and attached a couple photos to that email. I shortly received an answer, in which I was invited to stay for free at OWK as long as I am willing to participate in video shootings, an offer that I accepted. After the movies were released I started receiving very many emails from submissive men, who wanted to serve me. At first I was reluctant to have domination sessions for a tribute, but later, after talking to other pro dominas I realized that by becoming a professional dominatrix I could give up my job, which was ok, but not fantastic, and dedicate all my time to my passion for BDSM and at the same time afford all these gorgeous fetish outfits, expensive SM toys, having my own SM studio and travelling all around the world.
How do you prefer sub/slaves to address you?
Submissive men should address to me as Lady, Madam or Doamna (Romanian for Madam). My slaves should address to me as Mistress or Stapana (Romanian for Mistress).
Are you a sensual or sadistic Mistress?
I am, first of all, a sensual domina. I like to use the power of my femininity to turn men into objects for my use. But I like to see my subjects crawl and suffer for my pleasure, so most times I can be very cruel and sadistic. I could say that what attracts me mostly to femdom is domination – the absolute power that I can have over a man. And in order for me to feel that my slave is totally dedicated to me, he has to go through cruel humiliation and severe pain.
Where are you based?
I am based in Bucharest, Romania, and my private studio is here, but I travel a lot, especially in Europe to meet my slaves.
Where do your sessions take place? In a dungeon or domestic environment?
I can enjoy having sessions both in a dungeon and in a domestic environment; in order to dominate a man I need only my wicked mind. Yet, it depends a lot on the one that serves me: with masochists I prefer to have sessions in a dungeon, to be able to restrain them easily, but for humiliation I always prefer a domestic environment.
Do you travel/visit the UK often or was the Femme Fatale shoot a one off?
I travel to UK about two times a year, but I wish to do it more often, because the London fetish scene is my favourite I like to participate at parties organized by Club Pedestal. Otherwise, I am interested in finding a personal servant from London.
What activities do you enjoy? And which are your favourites?
My all-time favourite is orgasm control. This includes chastity, tease and denial, milking – controlling a man’s orgasms makes me feel that he is there for my pleasure and not his. This is the first rule that a man that wishes to become my slave should know and accept. I also adore training and protocol, corporal punishments and discipline, bondage (I have an affinity for predicament bondage), imprisonment, pony play, strap-on play, face sitting and smothering, sissification, feet and shoes worship. I am also a fetishist, I like to wear high heels, leather and latex.
Do you have a favourite implement to punish a naughty bottom with?
My short single-tail is definitely my favourite but I also like to use the belt, which can be available even when I don’t have a whip with me.
What was your first experience of dominating a male?
Back in 2002 I was cuckolding and humiliating the boyfriend I had at that time, though I had no idea that was called dominating, I just enjoyed very much that although he saw me with other men, he could not object as he was completely under my control.
Do you work with other Dommes in double/triple domination scenes?
I enjoy very much multiple domination scenes with several slaves and/or several dominas. When I travel abroad I look for pro dommes in the area that I travel to; in Bucharest I usually invite my dominant lady friends. I just love to lend my slaves to other women like objects and watch them have fun using them.
What can a client expect from you in his first visit?
In the first session I like to teach them the protocol (how to address to me, positions, etc.) and what I expect from them as my slaves, but, obviously, what happens during the sessions varies depending on the sub and on my mood. They can be sure of one thing, though: that their orgasm is not a certainty, they must earn it.
What is your speciality?
My speciality is Total Power Exchange.
What has been your favourite session so far?
I have had so many wonderful sessions that it is hard to pick one, but the one that comes to my mind now is a three-day session in which I was served by my personal slave and another slave with which I had a total power exchange for the duration of those three days. I recall the pleasure of being pampered by both of them, one brushing my hair and the other giving me a foot massage, helping me then to put on the fetish outfit and then using them both for my sadistic pleasures (especially the double predicament bondage).
What has been the most unusual request you’ve had?
I have classic femdom fantasies and am not interested in extreme things, but I have had several bizarre requests, which I obviously did not even consider, like men that wanted to be castrated by me and even one that expressed his wish to be killed by me, arguing that he will die sometimes anyway, so he would prefer to do it with his last image being of a beautiful woman with a sparkle in her eyes when she kills him. I like to believe that these are just fantasies that nobody wants to really fulfil.
Do you use safe words or prefer to work without them?
I don’t use safe words. I watch my subjects carefully and, with the help of my experience, can realize how far they can go. Most of my sessions are with my long term slaves, and I know how much I can stretch their limits. Of course, if a submissive wants to use safe words – it is possible to do so, but I think his experiences are more intense when he submits to me completely without a panic button.
What separates a good client/slave from a bad one?
A good slave is that one that puts my pleasure above his, respects my time and is grateful to be under my feet. A bad client is the one that cares only about his pleasure, the one that tries to get as much as possible, offering as little as possible. I don’t like to ask for a tribute, I like it to be offered to me, and am disgusted by men that pretend to forget to give it to me or try to negotiate it.
Which clubs do you attend? Are there any special events you’ll be attending?
I like femdom clubs, my favourite is Club Pedestal in London. I gladly attend any fetish/SM event, accompanied by my servants.
What is your favourite fetish wear outfit?
High-heel boots, short leather skirt and corset.
Does BDSM extend into your personal relationships?
My life partner is one of my personal servants. I have no interest in vanilla relationships of any kind. Most of my friends are kink aware or even members of the BDSM community.
What advice can you give someone who wants to become a professional dominatrix?
Try to assist other pro dominas during their sessions and learn from them and also to have as many non-pro sessions with different subs, for experience.
Do you have a web site?
My website is www.MistressEzada.com. I update the content at least weekly with a picture, and will soon have short video clips too. I also plan to launch a new site with femdom clips in a few months.
What is proper slave protocol for someone about to contact you and/or sessioning with you?
Enters my website, uses my contact form, writes me about himself and his expectations from a session with me, respectfully and concise. I have a FetLife account but the messages received there or on similar websites can be overlooked because of how many I get.
How do subs/slaves contact you?
Through the contact form on my website.