The importance of rituals in Femdom
Lately I received a lot of feedback from other Dominant ladies, so I decided to continue to share My experience about Female Led Relationships.
The human brain is set to be more comfortable with things that are familiar rather than novelty. Sometimes it can be a good habit (like feeling hungry at the same hour or waking up in the morning around the same time) or it can be bad habit (like the cigarette after dinner or spending too much time on social media). My desire is to help My slaves to be at the best of their abilities – in their submission towards Me and in their vanilla life. But today I am going to speak only about the first aspect – establishing rituals that will help them become better slaves/servants for Me.
I train My slaves differently and, even though there is some similitude, their training is different. But all of them must perform a kind of ritual that, through repetition, will take them deeper into submission. For example, when they serve Me in person the collaring ritual is always the same. As is removing the collar. This will prepare their minds for what is to come and will help them adjust easier.
For distance training there is a mantra that My boys must repeat before performing various tasks.
I find this easy to implement idea very useful and I would love to hear your opinion about it. Maybe you have some experiences that you would like to share?
nuli
27.07.2017 @ 10:01
Goddess Ezada’s emphasis on the importance of rituals in Femdom is very impressive. Her slaves have to wear collar and chastity cage, and every morning kissing Her feet to say “good morning, Goddess!”Then waiting position for Her to instruct you what to do and how to behave. During the day, a slave should take initiative to do house work for Goddess, but before doing anything, a slave should ask for approval from Goddess, if the idea is not so clear, a slave should not take it for granted, even if he means it well, but he had better listen to Goddess’ instructions. And no matter a slave is in Her presence or not, he has to worship Goddess Ezada five times, each time on his knees to kiss Her feet or Her shoes, or anything used by Her such as Her panties or pantyhose, or even some dust from under Her shoes. To recieve Her torture every day is also a ritual to show how a slave iloves Her and be loyal to Her. The more painful the torture is, the more it shows that the slave really loves Her and really willing to be Her slave, not just lip service. Furthermore, to drink Her champaign and eat Her chocolate with passion and liking is also an evidence to show if a slave really loves Goddess and is devoted to Her. While doing this, even a resistence at the bottom of heart is a shame. Because he does not pass the test as a ritual in Femdom. After everything is done perfectly, then a slave should serve Goddess to bed and kiss “Good night, Goddess!” to Her at Her feet. If nuli does all these perfectly everyday, no matter if Goddess says “Good boy” to me, nuli will feels to be a happiest male creature in the world.
shanzay khan
07.08.2017 @ 22:59
love the rituals of Goddess Worship.
shanzay khan
07.08.2017 @ 23:03
Goddess
its Shanzay , Your worshiper from Pakistan, I accept Your supremacy. You are the only God. You are the truth. Goddess I worship you 4 hours per day, including prostrations and prayers. plz accept my dedication
SDT
20.08.2017 @ 03:53
Hi Goddess ,,,
I loved everything you said . I think chastity device and ritual Goddess worship are the most high form in BDSM . When a slave ready to lock his cock with his mind , He will be the highest place in slave position . Giving everything he believe with his pleasure and focus about your pleasure Goddess Ezada while he’s in his right place bowing down and surrender to YOU .
tomaa
19.11.2017 @ 06:16
Goddess Ezada Sinn,
In my distance training it’s all about worship and love for Goddess.
I must admit that I have difficult whit rituals
Love You…
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06.06.2020 @ 13:37
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Brian H
11.01.2022 @ 19:37
Ritual is the key to a good Mistress/slave relationship. I say this unequivocally as a slave who serves a Mistress who insists on ritualistic enactments in most phases of a session. From a ritualistic greeting, where, on arrival as soon as I’m in her presence, I kneel and kiss her hand that is extended to me, I kiss it three times with three second kisses, then I kiss her other hand in the same way. This, she insists, is the gretting of a gentleman to an hounoured lady. At this point I prensent her tribute and any other offering. When these have been accepted I then kiss her feet, five, three second kisses on each foot as a slave confirming his seritude and her superiority.
Boot cleaning, foot worship, hand worship and any punishments are all preceeded by an elaborate ritual, that often includes begging and denial, that not only enhances the experience but strengthens the Mistress/slave bond.