Q&A : how to tell your gf about your femdom fantasies
How can I dare to tell my girlfriend that I am a femdom lover and I have many femdom fantasies?
When you talk about your sexuality is important to be open and sincere with your partner but in the same time not to shock Her with extreme kinky fantasies from the beginning. Start asking Her about Her fantasies and share with Her some of your fantasies. Start with fantasies more “innocent”, common and sexual like “foot worship” or “tease and denial” and see how She likes them. If She is comfortable with these you can gradually share and try more advanced things (like receiving pain or humiliation). Communication is very important and do not try to impose your fantasies over Hers. It is important that both you and Her find pleasure in Femdom and maybe She will like things that you don’t and vice versa. Experiment and find what works the best for you two.
As long as you are confident about your fantasies and you do not see them as something deviant or obscene She will be happy to try at least some of the things you like.
Don’t forget to give Her a feedback after each play and help Her understand that the humiliation or the pain She inflicts on you is something you love and excites you and it is a great way to feel closer to each other as Femdom provides a great opportunity for intimacy that is difficult to find in vanilla sex.
Good luck and let Me know how it went.
Nikki
24.02.2019 @ 18:05
Thanku so much Doamna for write a blog on my issue.
Once more I want to thank you because you are really a genius.
Today I told my girl friend that I love to lick her feet. First she objected on this but suddenly she allowed to me. Then I licked her feet and made my some fantasy true.
In the next meeting I will say her to tease me. May she will okay with that also.
You are beyond amazing Goddess.
Thanku so much to resolve my issue.
bootlicker
25.03.2020 @ 23:29
Thank You, Goddess, for the wise counsel posted 21 Feb 2019, ‘How to tell your gf about your Femdom fantasies.’
As always, Your advice is sound, practical and clear. Of course, the young man should accompany his gentle introduction of the topic with a very polite attitude. Not the total groveling worship that will be the final stage of the process,but simply refined and modest courtesy — the kind of thing that used to be (and perhaps in parts of Europe still is) expected of a swain courting his Lady: standing when She walks into the room, holding doors for Her, thoughtful little compliments.
Even if a young gentleman’s behavior never goes beyond this level to the SM and Femdom relationship that is normal in the glorious world of the impossibly beautiful Goddess Ezada Sinn, it will go a long way toward returning the world to a level of civility that can solve many of the planet’s political and social problems. If it leads to a more universal acceptance of the natural leadership of Women in the vanilla world at large, that is a definite step forward for all of humanity.
Perhaps, in Your sublime philosophical enlightenment, You Yourself have considered the possibility that some day in the the future, when the human race has progressed through political gender equality to recognition of the better leadership quality of the Superior Sex, the Ladies of the world will not heed Their whips for constant training of the male. The vision is that men will understand, in that much-improved age, that Women have the mental and moral equipment to rule, and there will no longer be an unspoken resentment of that fact.
Education will always be important, of course, even when the inferior gender grasps the idea that their role is to follow the better-qualified Ladies like Yourself. The cane or the riding-crop may survive for a century or two as a symbolic reminder (something like the British Army officer’s ‘swagger-stick’). It may be a recreational artifact, as men take on the roles of foot-massagers, oral lovers, and perhaps even cart-pullers for family games in this brave and beautiful new world to come.
Those of us males who see this coming someday thank You, Goddess, and the beautiful Ladies, Mistresses, Dominas and Mesdames like You. You are paving the way to a higher civilisation that this generation may not live to see, but that will come just a tiny bit closer to the perfection that is, in the present age, Your distinctive mark.
Thank You, each and every One of You.