I define mental chastity as abstinence at request without the aid of a physical chastity device.
1. it’s free! 2. it is VERY discreet 3. you do not need a physical chastity device, therefore no cleaning, maintenance, lock-in etc 4. it is comfortable, doesn’t restrict you from doing any activity 5. most chastity devices are not 100% secured 6. it goes to a deeper level of submission when one submits his sexuality without the aid of a chastity device 7. it is easier to be teased and denied 8. even when you use a device you must first accept the fact you will not ejaculate without Her permission 9. it makes your willpower as a submissive stronger – important part of obedience training 10. in case of a medical emergency one does not need to quickly remove the chastity
By now, pet collars have become a common accessories for men and women. Nothing scandalous about them – a fashion statement more than anything else. But in the context of a female led relationship they are of much greater significance. To a dominat Woman, the collar of Her chattel is a symbol of submission and yet another assertion of Her power over him. To the submissive, the collar is a constant reminder of being in training or of being owned, a wedding ring of sorts.
But not all collars are created equal.
Training collars Usually bought at the local pet shop. Could be plain and simple, could feature some gems and/or studs for the more feminine submissives, or a tag with the dominant female’s name on. Just in case that silly human pet gets lost!
“Owned” collars These collars remind the chattel that he is owned. Those could range from custom made titanium ones (like hubby’s), a discreet necklace (that could also be locked), a bracelet even.
Permanent collars Though amazing in theory, in practice these would be dangerous in case they need to be removed fast. I would not personally choose them although I can relate to the fantasy behind them.
A leash and a collar Adding a leash to the collar instantly transforms the submissive male to a human pet. He is thus relegated to an inferior position and not equal to his Owner in any way.
Remember – when a collar has a ring on it, it means submission. Removing the ring transforms it into an accessories, a fashion statement.
Leather of metal? Leather collars look cool but in time they get worn out. Large leather collars with spikes on could also be dangerous during play and because of that should be used only for the look of them, not during play.
I consider metal collars the best when it comes to both play and everyday use.
Watch the video below to learn more about collars in female led relationships and gaze upon My magnificent collection!
I like things to be done in a certain way and I train all My chattels to respect specific rituals that will not only help them remember better how I like things to be done around Me but will also increase their submission and desire to serve Me well.
before I come down from My bedroom, My chattel set up the table and assumes “waiting position”I click My fingers and My chattel greets Me with a kiss on My toes. Only one kiss!At My command he takes “inspection position”he is allowed to stand to have Me seated at the tablehe serves Me the teahe takes his place under the table where he will worship My feet for the duration of the breakfast
Learn the foot worship positions when I am seated.
The Doormat – on your back, palms up, I will place My feet anywhere on your body, you will only kiss or lick at My command. Otherwise you are only a mat under My feet.
The foot sniffer – on your back, lift your head to reach the area pointed by My crop. I like to see you putting on an effort to reach. I may use bondage to make your task even more difficult, for My amusement.
The foot worshiper – on your knees, supporting My leg with your hands or body, making sure I am comfortably receiving the act of adoration. If My legs are rested on a piece of furniture you don’t have to use your hands, only your mouth. I use My crop to place your head closer to one foot or another. The worship must continue until you receive another order.
Spit can be used in multiple ways in a femdom scene: it can be a sensual reward or a tool for intense humiliation. It can be used raw or mixed with food, served directly from the mouth or from a body part / object.
The Domina kiss – a sensual, very fluid spit dripped from My mouth to yours. Suitable for erotic games, Goddess Worship, sensual Domination.
The natural lube – spit is used as a natural lube. Depending of how it is applied can be sensual, humiliating or kinky. Suitable for orgasm control (handjobs, footjobs etc), or anal play (fingering, strap-on sex etc.)
The spit lotion – spit is applied and smeared on the face and body and left to dry. Suitable for humiliation play, Mistress/slave games, imprisonment fantasies.
The human spittoon – spitting from a distance, directly into your open mouth. Suitable for humiliating games, human ashtray.
The spit bukkake – spitting from a distance all over your face, including your mouth. Best when performed by several Ladies at once. Suitable for humiliating games, especially cuckolding and sissy play.
The baby food – spit is served as a drink, sometimes mixed with food like chocolate or banana. Suitable for age regression play, human pets training, imprisonment fantasies.
The spit cocktail – spit is mixed with beverages or food that the submissive must consume. Suitable for public play, Goddess Worship, mild humiliation.
The spit cocktail plus – spit is mixed with other body fluids or residues (like foot dust, urine, pubic hair) before served to the submissive. Suitable for intense humiliation scenes, imprisonment fantasies.
The spit towel – spit goes on My body or objects that I am wearing (like My boots) and must be cleaned by your tongue or other parts of your body (like your hair). Suitable for erotic Domination, Femdom sex (including cuckolding) or as an introduction to spit fetish when other fetish is present. For example someone with a fetish for boots may be very willing to lick the spit off the boots, hence starting to enjoy spitting as well.
The spit mop – the spit goes on the floor or certain objects that I am not wearing. Cleaning the spit without any physical contact from the Domina is highly humiliating. Suitable for intense humiliation sessions, financial domination, cuckolding.
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