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All about collars (from a Femdom perspective)

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By now, pet collars have become a common accessories for men and women. Nothing scandalous about them – a fashion statement more than anything else. But in the context of a female led relationship they are of much greater significance. To a dominat Woman, the collar of Her chattel is a symbol of submission and yet another assertion of Her power over him. To the submissive, the collar is a constant reminder of being in training or of being owned, a wedding ring of sorts.


But not all collars are created equal.


Training collars
Usually bought at the local pet shop. Could be plain and simple, could feature some gems and/or studs for the more feminine submissives, or a tag with the dominant female’s name on. Just in case that silly human pet gets lost!


“Owned” collars
These collars remind the chattel that he is owned. Those could range from custom made titanium ones (like hubby’s), a discreet necklace (that could also be locked), a bracelet even.


Permanent collars
Though amazing in theory, in practice these would be dangerous in case they need to be removed fast. I would not personally choose them although I can relate to the fantasy behind them.


A leash and a collar
Adding a leash to the collar instantly transforms the submissive male to a human pet. He is thus relegated to an inferior position and not equal to his Owner in any way.


Remember – when a collar has a ring on it, it means submission. Removing the ring transforms it into an accessories, a fashion statement.


Leather of metal?
Leather collars look cool but in time they get worn out. Large leather collars with spikes on could also be dangerous during play and because of that should be used only for the look of them, not during play.


I consider metal collars the best when it comes to both play and everyday use.


Watch the video below to learn more about collars in female led relationships and gaze upon My magnificent collection!

https://youtu.be/3DORJjuR0xI
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All about spitting fetish (in a Femdom context)

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Spit can be used in multiple ways in a femdom scene: it can be a sensual reward or a tool for intense humiliation. It can be used raw or mixed with food, served directly from the mouth or from a body part / object.

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  1. The Domina kiss – a sensual, very fluid spit dripped from My mouth to yours. Suitable for erotic games, Goddess Worship, sensual Domination.
  2. The natural lube – spit is used as a natural lube. Depending of how it is applied can be sensual, humiliating or kinky. Suitable for orgasm control (handjobs, footjobs etc), or anal play (fingering, strap-on sex etc.)
  3. The spit lotion – spit is applied and smeared on the face and body and left to dry. Suitable for humiliation play, Mistress/slave games, imprisonment fantasies.
  4. The human spittoon – spitting from a distance, directly into your open mouth. Suitable for humiliating games, human ashtray.
  5. The spit bukkake – spitting from a distance all over your face, including your mouth. Best when performed by several Ladies at once. Suitable for humiliating games, especially cuckolding and sissy play.
  6. The baby food – spit is served as a drink, sometimes mixed with food like chocolate or banana. Suitable for age regression play, human pets training, imprisonment fantasies.
  7. The spit cocktail – spit is mixed with beverages or food that the submissive must consume. Suitable for public play, Goddess Worship, mild humiliation.
  8. The spit cocktail plus – spit is mixed with other body fluids or residues (like foot dust, urine, pubic hair) before served to the submissive. Suitable for intense humiliation scenes, imprisonment fantasies.
  9. The spit towel – spit goes on My body or objects that I am wearing (like My boots) and must be cleaned by your tongue or other parts of your body (like your hair). Suitable for erotic Domination, Femdom sex (including cuckolding) or as an introduction to spit fetish when other fetish is present. For example someone with a fetish for boots may be very willing to lick the spit off the boots, hence starting to enjoy spitting as well.
  10. The spit mop – the spit goes on the floor or certain objects that I am not wearing. Cleaning the spit without any physical contact from the Domina is highly humiliating. Suitable for intense humiliation sessions, financial domination, cuckolding.

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The importance of rituals in Femdom

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Lately I received a lot of feedback from other Dominant ladies, so I decided to continue to share My experience about Female Led Relationships.

The human brain is set to be more comfortable with things that are familiar rather than novelty. Sometimes it can be a good habit (like feeling hungry at the same hour or waking up in the morning around the same time) or it can be bad habit (like the cigarette after dinner or spending too much time on social media). My desire is to help My slaves to be at the best of their abilities – in their submission towards Me and in their vanilla life. But today I am going to speak only about the first aspect – establishing rituals that will help them become better slaves/servants for Me.

I train My slaves differently and, even though there is some similitude, their training is different. But all of them must perform a kind of ritual that, through repetition, will take them deeper into submission. For example, when they serve Me in person the collaring ritual is always the same. As is removing the collar. This will prepare their minds for what is to come and will help them adjust easier.

For distance training there is a mantra that My boys must repeat before performing various tasks.

I find this easy to implement idea very useful and I would love to hear your opinion about it. Maybe you have some experiences that you would like to share?

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Picture of the week 39 2016 – 3 ruined orgasms in 3 different ways

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I have several proven and tested methods of ruining a male’s orgasm. I shall detail them here and demonstrate 3 of them on My slave, for My Lady friends to witness. The slave strapped to the table is flaccid to begin, yet when I am through with him, his balls will be milked bone dry. The best part of all My torture is knowing that he’ll receive no pleasure from My touch, only frustration. It is my right as a Woman to enjoy seeing My slave suffer, and suffer he will as his cock and his cum belong to Me.

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3 ruined orgasms in 3 different ways

I plan to launch a new website dedicated to male orgasm control soon, more precisely to ruined orgasms.

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