Q&A : how to tell your gf about your femdom fantasies
How can I dare to tell my girlfriend that I am a femdom lover and I have many femdom fantasies?
When you talk about your sexuality is important to be open and sincere with your partner but in the same time not to shock Her with extreme kinky fantasies from the beginning. Start asking Her about Her fantasies and share with Her some of your fantasies. Start with fantasies more “innocent”, common and sexual like “foot worship” or “tease and denial” and see how She likes them. If She is comfortable with these you can gradually share and try more advanced things (like receiving pain or humiliation). Communication is very important and do not try to impose your fantasies over Hers. It is important that both you and Her find pleasure in Femdom and maybe She will like things that you don’t and vice versa. Experiment and find what works the best for you two.
As long as you are confident about your fantasies and you do not see them as something deviant or obscene She will be happy to try at least some of the things you like.
Don’t forget to give Her a feedback after each play and help Her understand that the humiliation or the pain She inflicts on you is something you love and excites you and it is a great way to feel closer to each other as Femdom provides a great opportunity for intimacy that is difficult to find in vanilla sex.
Good luck and let Me know how it went.
