This is what I call the sacred position. The collaring is the divine moment of transformation. The friction of the second in which you and your sub change like in a holy sacrament. You become the Owner, the Mistress, the Keeper. He becomes the slave, the object, the dog. Once the collar is around his neck, he is yours. Collaring is the strongest symbol of ownership. The dog collar that stands for his position as a slave, an animal, nothing but owned property.
The gesture for „Collaring“ should once more be easy to remember for you and your slave. You put forth your right hand and then close it to clench your fist. The symbol is „I am taking you, I am grabbing Your soul never to let it loose again.“
For Me, the first collaring is a very special one. Because once I collar a slave for the first time I make him Mine. And that is forever, or rather as long as I want it to last. And as this first time is so important, I have a special ritual for that: I first lay the open collar across My lap while My slave kneels in front of Me. Then the slave will stoop down and lay his head on my lap, face down, so that his throat lays on the collar. His head in my lap like a little child. he is offering himself, he smells My crotch, his body asks Me to close the collar and so to make him Mine.