Mistress Ezada Sinn is an outstanding dominant woman who really lives her dreams. In the beginning, it wasn’t easy to do so, because society in Romania was not ready for her dominant lifestyle. But she was brave and bold enough to listen to herself – and not to others. This shows what a kind of woman she is, this shows her true character and nature. Ezada Sinn is a Mistress by heart, a Lady from head to toe, a strong leader and an idol for other women. Though the beautiful, elegant Lady lives in Bucharest, she is well known around the globe because of her stunning sessions in OWK, the Other World Kingdom in Czech Republic. Here she started with the filming she still enjoys today. An interview about BDSM in Romania, her dominant lifestyle, the OWK, her Polyandry House and Femdom phantasies.
Lady Sas: Dear Ezada Sinn, how would you describe the situation of dominant women in Romania?
Mistress Ezada Sinn: You know, in Romania we have a long tradition of strong and powerful women reaching far back into the past. This was true also during the grey decades of communism. Maybe it was just not so visible as back then sexuality was very hidden and any form of promiscuity was officially banned. That means the female domination had not really decreased. Sadly people are still too narrow minded to understand the concept even though this is happening since forever.
In my personal life I have no problem to live my dominant lifestyle 24/7. In the relationship with my personal slave and husband I am the one who takes all the important decisions, i.e. I am in control of finances, I order the food in the restaurant, I decide where and when we travel, whom we meet, where we live etc. To cut a long story short: I simply tell him what to do (laughing). Dragging him along on a dog leash on Bucharest high street during shopping hours however still awaits realization for the time being.
Lady Sas: Is there a BDSM scene in Romania?
Mistress Ezada Sinn: Yes, there definitely is a scene and I would say that it is developing into the right direction. When I started to be active in the BDSM scene back in 2006 there was practically nothing here. Now we have public and private parties, workshops etc.. For example I have been to a nice Shibari workshop in Bran, Romania, just a couple of weeks ago. I think we will need another 5 years to come to a standard as you already have it in Western Europe.
Lady Sas: I have heard that you plan to open a slave farm together with other Ladies. How far is this project developed?
Mistress Ezada Sinn: Well, it is not really a slave farm. The next big event will be my Femdom Summer Camp at the Algarve in Portugal in September. I have rented a wonderful villa where I will spend a week full of sun and fun and torture together with three other wonderful dominant Ladies and a bunch of slaves. I am really looking forward to this because it will be totally different from a male-phantasy driven Pro-Domme event. The Camp will be about our female fun and phantasy and not about theirs. The men will be there just to serve and please us and for nothing else. The Camp will however be just a temporary thing. As I´ve said, it will be a week of fun. My ultimate plans go much further than that. I plan to soon realize what I call the “Polyandry House”.
Lady Sas: What do you understand by a “Polyandry House”?
Mistress Ezada Sinn: The Polyandry House will be a true Femdom household where I will live together with two or three of my slaves. They will be there with me to serve me and worship me. Not for a couple of hours or days but permanently. Apart from those permanent slaves there will be others who will come to serve me for just limited periods of time. And I will of course invite my Lady friends for joint projects, festivities and parties.
Lady Sas: Do you see your Polyandry House as a kind of OWK?
Mistress Ezada Sinn: Well, yes and no. “Yes” as it will also be a place which will be totally dedicated to the concept of female supremacy and where the role and function of the male is strictly a submissive, following, serving one. “No” as it will be a much more private location. It will be my personal home and not a Femdom theme park.
Lady Sas: Speaking of OWK: How do you see your stay there from your perspective today?
Mistress Ezada Sinn: I have the warmest recollections of the OWK and still feel very sad that it is history now. Staying at the OWK was the first time really that I completely immersed into this “other world” in which we rule and they serve. The name of the place was indeed wisely chosen. I will never forget my first night there when I immediately took control over three slaves and gave them a lection they will sure remember until today. I loved the rules that existed there, the state like organization, everything built on female supremacy. I fell in love with the whole concept that was so unique and visionary at the time. And, last but not least, it was at the OWK that I started with the filming that I still do intensely until today. The clips that I made there are still on sale and doing quite well. True historic footage really (laughing).
Lady Sas: What do you feel when you control the orgasms of a slave with a chastity device?
Mistress Ezada Sinn: I feel ultimate control. And control is my biggest turn on. I am aroused by the idea of the men around the globe locked in a cage to which I hold the key. (Speaking, Ms. Ezada tenderly touches the key that she wears on a necklace). Men are simple creatures, driven by their sexuality. If you control their cock, you control the brain and thus the whole guy. Really understanding that and acting consequently according to this insight will put you on top of them. And this is permanent. It is such a fundamental thing that I still cannot believe why not all women use this powerful tool consistently and forcefully for their own pleasure and progress. The chastity device however is only the first level. My personal slaves have been trained by me to reach a level of mental chastity. They have been led and guided to overcome their disgusting male greed and needs and so to live a chaste life completely committed at my mercy. They are like monks who have dedicated their lives to a higher being. Monks with whipped asses though (laughing).
Lady Sas: Are there still Femdom phantasies you haven’t realized?
Mistress Ezada Sinn: Oh yes! I am trying out new things every day and still have so many ideas. My phantasies are mainly not around playing games but around developing relationships. Branding my personal slave and husband with my initials in a ceremonial ritual together with all my Lady friends is one of them. And then of course, there is the realization of Polyandry House. But this is more of a project and less of a phantasy.
Lady Sas: I’ve read in another interview that you train slave-girls as sluts and prefer to punish male slaves. How do you feel when you train a slut? Can you tell us more about this kind of training?
Mistress Ezada Sinn: Difficult question. When I talk about a “slut” my connotation is definitely male. Before my eyes I see a man lying on his back with his legs bent and wide spread, offering his ass openly to a Lady’s strap on. This for me is a slut.
I cannot be really dominant over women like I am over men. I feel that all women belong to the same species as me, they are equal. So in a session with them I do not feel pleasure to subdue or hurt them like I have it with men. Being in a session with a woman my interest would rather be to give her the pleasure she is after even if it is very different from my own preferences. For example if she likes to be made to suck a cock I would give her the opportunity to do so while I simultaneously whip the ass of the guy who enjoys the sucking. See what I mean?
Lady Sas: Oh, yes, I think so. You travel a lot. What are your favourite places?
Mistress Ezada Sinn: Ah, I love travelling and enjoy myself wherever I go. I love to see new things and to learn about different cultures and societies. Maybe this is in my genes, because the people from my country for so long did not have much opportunity to travel abroad.
I love places where it is warm and sunny. Spain, Southern France to name just two. Unfortunately for SM purposes then, the colder countries of Northern Europe offer much more possibilities than the South. So I also travel there a lot for more business oriented voyages. The UK and also Germany recently. I have to admit though that I found some German slaves to be more unpleasingly needy and stubborn compared to the French or English.
Lady Sas: Here’s the final question: What are your plans for the future?
Mistress Ezada Sinn: I want to further develop my work as a producer. In the filming I see an excellent opportunity to share the ideas that fascinate me with the world. There will also be a new website shortly with a new concept, but I do not want to say too much about this before it is really finished. Stay tuned for further news on my website blog and on Twitter. And then, of course: Polyandry House, my Femdom home and mansion in the making.
Lady Sas: That sounds great! Thank you very much.
Mistress Ezada Sinn: You are most welcome. My pleasure.